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I still get smacked now and I'm 21! Not by my parents I might add ...

2006-12-02 07:10:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

13 answers

Yes..but it did me good.

P.S. I hope your boyfriend or whoever isn't smacking you in a "bad" way.

2006-12-02 10:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Trini-HaitianGrl81 5 · 0 0

Define smacked?

A spanking for a misbehaved child is perfectly acceptable. A spanking for a 21 year old is a matter of choice if the husband is involved and its just sexplay - if you're into that sort of thing.
Why a parent would need to smack an adult child, however, is questionable.

I wasn't smacked as a child but i did receive many a lashing with a razorstrap. I thought it unfair at the time but I now realize I had it coming.

2006-12-02 15:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by crusty old fart 4 · 0 0

Got it and got it often. However I turned out as a good guy and since then I have found a stronger foundation on who I am and where I shall go in life. Not necesarilly due to the smacked as you say, but due to the fact that in time, later in my life I found the right people to hang out with. I am never turning back and I do not blame my parents for the smacking. We called it spanking then. However, I made sure that I never did any smacking to any of my kids.
I know what it did to me and I know what It would have done to them. However, I strongly believe in " spare the rod, spoil the child ".
There has to be some sort of line drawn to make sure that the kids learn right from wrong.
Hole that this helps you. ?

2006-12-02 15:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by having fun 3 · 0 0

Yes I did, and after I was all grown up and looked back, I can say without question that every "larrupin'" I ever got was absolutely deserved and definitely stopped me going down that road I was trying to go. I have never been able to thank my parents enough for doing what was needed, and in fact is needed today. Instead kids are able to get away with just about every kind of horrendous behaviour either because their parents are too bleeding-heart wimpy about swatting their unruly kid, or are themselves scared of the intervention of the Law. If parents were allowed to do more swatting while that kid is young, the prisons would be less full of adults who - having gotten away with rotten behaviour as kids, gained confidence to go on to even worse things later.

2006-12-02 15:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by sharmel 6 · 0 0

If you ask me, kids have too much protection against stuff like that. Kids learn best from stuff like a smack... not all that bullsh!t about talking to the child, and being reasonable... kids are not reasonable and each one deserves to be smacked!

btw I need a good smack if anyone wants to deliver it

2006-12-02 15:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by brian-upstairs 3 · 0 0

my dad smacked me all the time. i deserved it though. i was a little evil bastard and got introuble at school or with the law or somthing every day, sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. i too am 21 but my dad dont smack me any more. and if any one else trys to smack me i'll break thier arm.

2006-12-02 15:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Yes, I got smacked. But, If someone was to smack me today they better be ready to run because when I smack them back they can be ^%&* sure their going to hit the floor.

2006-12-02 15:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by SueBee 3 · 0 0

i would never hit a woman but yes ive been smacked as a child who hasnt?

2006-12-02 15:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes I did all the time for nothing at all
for things I did and things I did not do
but talking about you...this could take all day Saturday to take of this problem,..OH yes I could help you out with this situation, and make both of us scream, yell and cry, then smile and laugh all at the same time.
sounds great to me..

smile
good luck

2006-12-02 16:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Of course I (and my generation) did. I also think that it did us no harm. I used to prefer to get a wallop with the wet dishcloth from my mother than all the verbal she could give. In fact one day when she was giving me an on-going tongue lashing, I asked her to hit me and let me go out to play...................

2006-12-02 15:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0 0

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