me and my best friend are doing this dance with 10 other people and one person i hate. it's my best friends sort of friend, I HATE HER SO MUCH.(i hate her because she said that i can't skate and she has not even seen me skateboard and i am like the best out my grade level). Well back to the question and she wants to be in my group but i have been saying no, and my best friend hates her to thats why she wants to be friends with me and not her. So the girl i hate can just come into our group.( i asked the rest of the pweople in my group and they did'nt want her in the group either) What should i do she won't listen to me and i don't want to hurt her feelings?
Well it does not matter if i do cuz she is not my friend :)
2006-12-02 07:08:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
I understand, a girl in my math class is like that. Try to be nice and politely say that you can't have any more people in your group. If she won't leave you alone, avoid her. If she follows you, walk where a teacher can see her annoying you, and that might make her stop. Or the teaher will tell her to stop. She will expect to get angry and yell at her or something, but if you ignore her or act really nice to her, she might stop because you aren't doing what she wants you to do.
2006-12-02 07:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sarai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really up to you guys as a group. Do these other girls really have a problem with "the girl" or are they just going along with what you say. The only reason why you don't like her is because she made a comment about how you skated? Sounds kind of petty. Maybe this girl just wants to belong and looks at you guys like you are pretty cool...ever think of that? I would recommend that if none of the girls really like her that you find a way to let her know that you don't want her in the group. Remember, how YOU handle this situation will say alot about who you are and what kind of compassion you have. I don't imagine that "the girl" would want to be in your dance group if she knew nobody liked her. I know I don't want to be surrounded by people that don't like me.
Think real hard and remember to show compassion!
2006-12-02 07:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do What YOU feel best with.
Do you want to confront in a very Arrogant manner or a Respectful Manner Doesn't Matter if you hate her not but she Human as well adn so What if she says you can't skate? Who is she to tell you that? is she your coach? is she your Personal Trainer I don't really think so .
So just act your age and do what feels Right not Hesitant ask a Family Member or Teacher whoever you trust cause you are your own person.
2006-12-02 07:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by racoonxoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 01:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by molander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to remember wat she did and try to be friends with her ppl, that u hate will usually hate u back and that will get u someday
2006-12-02 07:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sceptre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋