Ok i am very confused.. I have been in a long distance relationship for 6 months we have been engaged to be marry for 3 months... When I am with her nothing else in the world matters all I can think about is being with her for the rest of my life... But when im apart my common sense kicks in... We are so different in every way.. Our religion our beliefs and our culture.... I realize that it will be a long hard road ahead if we marry... So I ask what should I do...
2006-12-02 07:06:21 · 16 answers · asked by undecided 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Financial stability is important, but if you love someone you can work together to have that stability. If financial stability is all that is making you question getting married, then I say do it. The biggest obstacle would be the different religions. I guess it would depend on how different they are.
2006-12-02 07:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kari M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12/2/06 - In all honesty, financial stability is more important. Love will develope & grow more if you're financially stable... Today more marriages end due to a lack of finances; lack of money = lack of play, so stress, doubt & that age old question & answer comes up "Why am I with him/her" & the answer "I can do bad by myself." So if she's a blast and in all honesty can handle things if something was to happen to you, lets say injured @ work & can't return for 6months - you need to know that she can handle everything until you're back in the game of contributing to the household; that answer applies to women also - make sure the man of your dreams can make without you for 9 months. Always think & plan for worst case scenerios, everything else is a piece of cake - a pebble \ rock on you all road and not a mountain blocking the path...
2006-12-02 07:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by kwest30038 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has only been 6 months. Are you seriously thinking of getting married to someone you barely know? I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we have 2 kids, and we still do not feel we are ready for marriage. We continue to learn new things about each other every day. 6 months is a joke to think that you know someone enough to marry them. If you think that you are so different when you are not together, then wait until you find out all of the little annoying things like not wiping the toothpaste out of the sink. or leaving wet towels on the bathroom floor. or not cleaning up dirt the brought in when they came home. GET REAL!
2006-12-02 07:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I surely believe that's about 2 issues: a million.) Love and a couple of.) mentality. If love guidelines the courting and a couple of everyone looks mature adequate to understand what makes the international bypass round then both can develop into financially take care of mutually. If the mentality is that one or both should be financially take care of previously marriage, then so be it. purely relies upon on both and there perspectives.
2016-11-30 01:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by molander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to get all wrapped up in romance when you are together. Be glad your common sense kicks-in. It is telling you that everything isn't all "perfect" yet. Plan your finances. I see more marriages break-up because of problems brought on by poor financial security than anything else...maybe aside from philandering.
2006-12-02 07:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by James Y 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well youve only been in a relationship for only 6 months. and enaged for 3 i htink yall need to be engaed for at lest a year befor e marrige and yall should try to move in one house to see how ur soon to be spouse really is in her every day life and can u put up with it. move in together and see what u think of that
2006-12-02 07:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is always more important. Not saying that financial stability isn't important too but Love should be first.
2006-12-02 07:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what are your difference's and what do you have in common?If you have the most in common MARRY HER.If you have the least in common just be really good friends!.
2006-12-02 07:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by Taryn R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it love or lust? You have to be able to tell the difference. Love waits, lust is in a hurry. If it's love, use the waiting time to discuss serious religious and moral issues and clear them up. Good luck to you.
2006-12-02 07:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes merry her if this is Patrick Griffin email this is Kristen Vitale
2006-12-02 07:10:42 · answer #10 · answered by kristvitale1973 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋