Some marriages go down hill. When this happens, can it get back up? My husband and I recently found out we have been in the wrong direction for a couple of years. I think it has a lot to do with having our kids now and not a lot of time for each other. How easy is it to get back on track?
2006-12-02 06:47:18 · 9 answers · asked by jayjay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it possible! Just find little romantic things to do and enjoy more time together. Cuddling always helps especially since it's cold.
Start it off with a bang by having a nice get-away weekend somewhere quite and cozy and romantic.
2006-12-02 06:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he has a sweet young girl on the side in competition for your time I am afraid you have no chance. She may not even want him but the fact you do makes her want to prove she can get whatever she wants.
You are going to have to lose that weight and get back into shape quietly but quickly. He has to believe other men want you or he will not.
The kids and the money will keep you together but not happily. Start making your husband a priority in your life once again like when you first met. Stop the comfort level you fell into by taking him for granted. Wear nicer clothes, wear your hair a certain sexy way start think young again. You have competition now. No more headaches just say yes and give him what he needs and wants or your life with him is over!!!!
2006-12-02 06:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by laxthefacts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that difficult once you stop making excuses for not spending time. Put the kids to bed and set time aside for the couple. You have to make time for each other. Not doing so indicates a lack of commitment to the couple. You have seen what happens then.
Oh, and, get a sitter and go on a date. When was the last time you did that? Make sure to go somewhere you can talk, no movies. It does not have to cost a lot. Just talk.
2006-12-02 07:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man if you find a way let me know.....we've been missing our mojo for 2 years and I've tried so hard. I'd do anything to get it back!! It seems that if it goes away then it probably just wasn't strong enough to endure. My wife prefers drinking nightly to any intimacy!! Not that drinkings bad but I'd much rather spend quality intimate time sometimes!!
2006-12-02 11:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by faststang71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a breeze if you want to treat it like a new romance. You need to tell him what you think has happened and inform him that you are planning to treat him like a potential sqeeze. If he wants to get involved you're in for a fun 6 months!
2006-12-02 06:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the last two years out of your mind and his mind.
Remember why you got married. Remember what made it worth while.
That will be your answer.
2006-12-02 13:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Mn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find something that you two enjoy doing together and keep doing it. the happier you guys are together, the longer your marriage will last.
Good luck!
2006-12-02 06:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by PSP Tech Team 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you want it. If you don't it will fail
2006-12-02 06:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just try your best
2006-12-02 06:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Tori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋