I been with this friend for 15 months I have put him in treatment 4 times and helped him keep his job before and he continnues to use then he drive a large truck hours after using.I love him and now he hates me for this.They are now going to drop him often.Did I help or hurt
2006-12-02 06:04:07 · 10 answers · asked by angelunawrs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
here's a web site that just might just help you out called www.introvention.com give that a try and they can help you get your friend into a drug rehab for his problem.don"t feel sorry for him at least your trying to help him to find to gettting help.
2006-12-02 09:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told the truth........You did the right thing.....You have probably saved his life and others.
A user shouldn't be behind the wheel of a truck/let alone after using.
Loving someone can sometimes be painful.You sound like a great friend...yes he will be mad and yes it will hurt that he lost his job.....in the long run you have saved him and many others...he will thank you.
Remember you can lead him in the right direction...he has to want to quit and heal himself.....don't blame yourself for wanting what is right and trying.....he doesn't know or cant really think about that right now....
2006-12-02 06:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all I definitely have under no situations heard of crack going undesirable so there is a few thing improper with the man telling you approximately it or if he have been given it so low-value this is particularly many times decrease with assorted different concerns that could desire to pass risky ( the flaws they decrease drugs with regularly do extra harm then the medicine themselves on the grounds that people will positioned in spite of in it to make a gross sales) if your acquaintances for some reason are set on attempting crack it possibly less complicated to persuade them that they could desire to now no longer have confidence the guy they're getting it from. additionally make it sparkling to them that drugs like a reliable thank you to decrease to rubble your existence in the event that they be attentive to the way against it you're they is likewise extra probable to experience approximately what they're doing If worse come worsted you will could desire to tell anybody, its greater to be the nark that all and sundry people hates for a mutually as than the baby who's acquaintances OD
2016-12-29 19:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big help. This person needs help before he hurts or kills himself, you or others. He either needs to pursue help by himself, from friends/family or available social service agencies; if he does not, you should consider telling him good bye before he makes your life unbearable and dragw you down. Get his family involved in helping if possible. If he does not straighten out, he will eventually sink into extremely deviant behaviour and legal trouble, that is, if he is still alive.
2006-12-02 06:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by shotinthedark4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no right to feel bad. What you did shows that you are really a true friend. Just think about how you would have felt had you kept quite and something bad happend to him. One of thesse days he will thank you for this.
2006-12-02 06:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look sweet heart please don't feel bad about this, because u were so right!! he could have went out and killed someone are killed himself if he are DUI let me tell u this u need to get out of that, because thing don't get any better when he's on crack trust me!!!
2006-12-02 06:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you told the truth, you shouldnt feel bad. He needs to wake up and see what he is doing to himself and what he could potentially do to someone else.
2006-12-02 06:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I dont think you should have told his job. I think that you are his friend, and that you were only trying to help, but...I just dont know. I'd be pissed at you too because you now stuck your nose in my business and Im now f*cked. Yet, he does need help.
2006-12-02 06:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by Shana 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ooooo that's tough, you're A GREAT friend for continuously helping him out, as far as his job, well i don't know did you help him get this job? then what you did was right, but it's hard to say because that's his job.....you know what? YOU DID GOOD!!!!
2006-12-02 06:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing and when your friend kicks the habit he will be grateful and realize that you are a true friend.
2006-12-02 06:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋