They married after their first child was only 5 months old. Five months later my daughter is pregnant again, and they separated legally. The divorce never happened for various reasons, now that the divorce is about to happen a year and a half later they are back together trying to save their marriage and family. I want to see their marriage work and I pray to God it does. They have a beatiful 1 yr old girl and a handsome 2 and a half year old boy. I think a lot of their problems were finances and the fact that my daughter had a hard time learning to give up some of the finer things in life "my fault I spoiled her" I think she has matured some but still has a ways to go. He now has a better job too. I know they love each other but they have a lot to work out. They would like to go to couple's counceling but can't really afford the expense at this time. He has some issues too, he came from a very dysfunctional family. He has anger problems and ADD. If anyone can please help save them.
2006-12-02 06:02:12 · 4 answers · asked by Marcia S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they are going to learn what life is like, together or not. for the time being they are trying to work it out, and that is a good thing. you have to let time run it's course and see if they are really meant to be together or not. if they are, they will learn to solve the problems they have and gain the maturity to solve and in the future.
2006-12-02 06:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems as if there is a lot of things going on here. First of all, BOTH of them are going to have to want to save their marriage. If they do, I suggest that they get marriage counseling and start from the beginning. Perhaps even get family counseling because they have two children. Not only does he have to get used to being a husband but also a father. And the children have to be able to get used to him.
2006-12-02 06:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your concern and that you want to help. This is something they have to work out themselves.
They obviously need professional help. Maybe there are some support groups in their area. Contact the local hospital to see if they offer any counselling at reduced rates. Some professionals allow you to pay on a sliding scale, you have to check out the area where they live.
I wish you all the best with this.
2006-12-02 06:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All u can do is pray the rest is up to them for them to make it work and be as much supported to them at this time and knowing that they are trying to make it work is a blessing....
2006-12-02 06:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋