ok so im Bi and i really wanna tell my bestfriend cuz im in love with her but how do i do it i dont wanna freak her out!
2006-12-02 05:23:51 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley D 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If she's not bi then it will freak her out.
Have you ever dicussed your sexuality with her? Bring up the subject, see what happens but don't push.
2006-12-02 06:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on how long you have been best friends and if you can talk about anything with each other. You don't seem comfortable in your question to show a trust in her so that's why I wonder how long you have been friends. Get some courage and just tell her that you have a curiosity of what it would be like to be with another girl and see how she responds. If she seems very uncomfortable then do not persue it any farther, it means she hasn't ever thought of it. I am a guy and I have done that and if the other guy said he doesn't swing that way, I drop it.
2006-12-02 16:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by loose_canadian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you could be up for some heartbreak here. I agree - bring up the subject and see how it goes from there. You should be able to tell if she'd be open to something more. BUT if she isn't interested, then you have to consider whether you should be spending so much time with someone you love, but can only be friends with. That can end in tears for the both of you - she won't understand why you get upset about certain things and she'll unknowingly break your heart.
2006-12-02 15:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by uksmartypants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once me and my friend would pretend we were gf and gf then once i got pissed at her so i told her i was breaking up with her as a joke but she took it really personaly then i found out she was bi and did like me as a gf after that i felt so uncomfortabke around her that we stoped hanging out since then i havent talked to her if i could id change that. i dont know how your gonna tell your friend with out it bothering her
2006-12-02 18:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her gently if you're worried about her reaction and find out if she's also interested. I wish ya the best.
2006-12-03 01:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋