patience or what man?

Question

i took th morning pill 9 hour afer sex..and im expectig my period anyway this week....i have been gettting cramps - it has now been 6 days afrer sex and the period didnt come yet! but i have been getting cramps n stuff! i took a pregnancy test many times and it is negative. should i just b patient or something?

btw sex lasted 1 min and he came outside - he withdre and came 5 secs later. also this was my first time ot have sex.

Answer 1

All you can do is wait. Sometimes the morning after pill actually makes some people late, though it more frequently makes people early.

The EXACT same thing happened to me (the 1 minute losing virginity, the pull out, the plan B and the wait) and I ended up having my period. I was very emotional about the whole ordeal and I hope you're okay. I hope you guys agreed to have sex (if you didn't, I'm so sorry... I didn't). If you did, you shouldn't be so hard on your boyfriend- he's probably humiliated as it is. It WILL get better.

I doubt your pregnant, but I feel your pain. The waiting is excruciating.

EDIT- for the people being asses and lecturing this girl- she just lost her virginity and I doubt she expected it to happen this way. She also sounds young. It's true- if she does this again, she should ALWAYS use a condom and/or go on birth control. Though I would assume she's learned her lesson here. The main reason MAP can't be used as a regular form of contraception (besides the ethical arguments people might bring up) is that it dramatically loses it's effectiveness with each use and you should save something like this for absolute emergencies, or you may screw yourself in the end.

Answer 2

The morning after pill should not be used as a form of contraceptive on a regular basis. There are three main reasons the MAP should be used..... rape victims; couples who have had a condom break; women who have been lured into having sex while under the influence of drink or drugs.

The MAP can cause a period to come early or late. Some women do experience minor symptoms of headaches, upset stomach, dizziness, spotting, to name a few. I suggest you wait a few more days. If you fail to receive your period, consult your doctor.

BTW....it doesn't matter if a man does not ejaculate inside you. PRE-EJACULATION is enough to cause pregnancy. When a man obtains an erection, seminal fluid is immediately released. All it takes is ONE DROP to impregnate a female.

Answer 3

If you took ECP that quickly after sex and it was the type of sex you're describing and you were about to have your period anyway, I doubt you're pregnant...from that encounter. Is it possible you've gotten pregnant from a different time? ECP will work in the first 72 hours, but won't work if you've gotten pregnant from a previous sexual encounter. If it's your only sex, don't worry. If you've had sex in the past couple of months unprotected...get yourself to the pharmacy for a pregnancy test!

Answer 4

Don't use as birthcontrol. You don't want to mess up your hormones like that. Have protected sex, std's are way too common. A man can have a std & not even know it. Some you get & have for ever! You don't want to accidently get pregnant, wait til you are ready for a familly. A pregnancy test normally dont work til you are late. You should be pateint.

Answer 5

You see, when you have unprotected sex and or sex outside of marriage you will always be typing these kinds of questions. You will forever worry about being pregnant, worry about STD's and all that goes with that sort of lifestyle. Why not just save it for after marriage and then you won't have the stress and hassle of all that you've just recently been through. It's sort of like beating yourself up and then worrying about broken bones.

Answer 6

be patient