My Sister Physically Abuses Me???????????

Question

I AM A 12 YEAR OLD BOY. WHEN MY PARENT LEAVE ME AND MY SISTER AT HOME, MY 14 YEAR OLD SISTER PHYSICLLY ABUSES ME. FOR INSTANCE, ONCE SHE TRAPPED ME IN A BATHROOM AND BEAT ME WITH A HAIRBRUSH, THIS LEFT VERY LARGE BRUISES. IF I FIGHT BACK, SHE GETS ME IN TROUBLE, WHEN I TELL MY PARENTS, THEY DONT BELIEVE ME. I DONT HAVE ANYONE TO TALK TO.

WHAT SHOULD I DO???

Answer 1

Be calm when you tell your parents, and show them the bruises. Let them know that you are afraid to be alone with your sister. If they still don't believe you, talk with the counselor at school. They will help.

Answer 2

I'm so sorry about this, try telling a teacher, then when the school gets involved maybe your parents will listen, i wish there was something else i could tell you, I hope you find something to help you through the crazzy time you are having with your sister.....GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

try to place a camera secreatly to video tape the hole things that happen to u in secret,and keep a copy of the tape and then show it to ur parent or the police or some one but do some thing fight back in ur own way,learn karate to defend ur self kick her wher it hurts her the most or get a friend to help u,defend ur life do not ever surrender to the situation u r in,do some some thing get a friend to help u,do not stay with ur sister alone.tell ur parents what u just said top us.

Answer 4

Tell a counselor, keep it quiet till she leaves bruises, then tell someone of a higher authority than your parents, and use the counselor you've been talking to as proof that it's happening, mabe try to get it on camera HELP YOURSELF!
it is not wrong to use some cleverness, and secrecy to get out of a situation like yours, if your sister catches wind of it she may stop for a while and begin to seem like she's changed only to return to her old behavior later when she feels the threat of exposure is gone. more likely she'll first try as best she can to talk you out of definate evidence of her behavior, and then cut off your means of exposing her.

national abuse hotline: 1800 4 a child
(ask them what you should do to get out of it, they'll know more than I do)

(I'm so sorry for you that your still going through this, it's wrong, and horrible that family can do that to each other, don't cave to her, get yourself out of that situation before u go through puberty, I think in my situation that's the only thing that kept me sane, that I never had to deal with the abuse, and disbelief by my dad, and the cruelty of my little sister using my abusive mother, while I had to worry about peer pressure, sexual feelings, and everything else that winds up blurring together in the junior high social context.)
know that you're a good person, and not the cause of any of it, and ultimately you will be in better shape as an adult because you understand it is wrong to abuse and use people. It is also wrong to be abused, don't let that keep happening to you in your life.
For later,
If people try to help counsel you, it's better to accept it than try to sort things out on your own, but some people have no clue what they're saying, so once your safe from your sister you will have to draw your own conclusions on why it was wrong, why she did it, what it left you with, and how you choose to live your life afterwards. It may sound strange, but years later you may realize how much more she was hurting herself by her behavior, but never sympathize with her in trying to understand her.

(you might come to this a long time from now, once you are well out of your current situation, especially if you are a sensitive person (not in a derogatory way, but in the sense that you truely care about other people and they're feelings) don't read now as it is irrelevant and won't make any sense.
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(I learned this the hard way) it is allright to try to understand the extent of your situation (or former situation), which you might revisit some times in your life as you mature, and it continues to impact you, but don't turn people's sympathy into a pity party, and don't let yourself play the part of the victim, because you'll feel your living an extremely self-sacrificing life when in reality people are just using you, and there's nothing righteous about it, and eventually you'll start to loose the means to influence your own direction in life and you will actually become nothing.

Answer 5

this depends you can call the police and they will or will not believe you. you can get a stick and when your sister leaves you can whip her and have her scared of you. you can start crying like crazy to your parents and show them the bruisies. and you have to call the police on your sister, this is called physical abuse. tell your teachers, they should inform you parents.

Answer 6

Again, go to your school resource officer. If your dad and sister are doing this and your parents are divorced or your mom is too then I recomend going to the police too.

Answer 7

Call the police. Assault is assault. If your parents will not believe you, then perhaps they will believe the police when they cart your abusive sister away in a pair of handcuffs.

Answer 8

Maybe the next time she does it you should call the police. It is a hard thing to do but maybe it will help you rparents notice what is going on and help your sis get some help.

Answer 9

Are you making up things aobut abuse.? First i read about your father and then about your sister. If this is true you need help go to a skool counsler or somtin!

Answer 10

If you go to church..speak to your Reverend..he may be able to help speak to your parents.. Only go to a school counselor if all else fails and explain your issue,