Especially when they take money from girls..How can the person who caused this problem solve it?
2006-12-02 05:02:11 · 4 answers · asked by Irmak 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No for example he has no money but he can't say it to his girlfriend..But she understands it and give him money..So he feels bad..Why does it like this?
2006-12-02 05:09:40 · update #1
The answer is quite simple. Men are expected to be the primary providers of their home. Most men expect themselves to be self-sufficient, so not taking money from women, wanting to find their own way in life and on the road, as well as protecting their families are second nature for us. It is not an honour problem, but it is how men approach life. Monetary issues are the only thing that can affect a man's self-esteem--not his weight or anything else. Being able to have enough to support a family and thus feel respected in the eyes of the world are essential for any man. If you remember that, you will understand men.
Cheers!
Mr. M on "honour problem."
2006-12-02 05:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a man suppose to provide ..a man must not show any floors..it is a instincts .. most .. or all male animal kingdom possess ..showing dominance ..and no weak areas .a male should send out vibe.demonstrating confidence.responsibility.and commitment...
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But taking money from a female species demonstrates he is not capable of fulfilling his obligations
and .depends on female species to look after him.
An innate pattern of behaviour in man in response to a certain stimuli ..LOL
2006-12-02 17:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If men is asking for the money..DUMP HIM. you will do it one day so why not NOW
take a look Britney and Kevin Example...she tried for 3 years and now she finally got divorced but she is not mother of one and , fat, low confidence ....you dont want this to yourself? do you ?
Dump him. If he ask you for the MONEY that means HE IS BUM. period.
2006-12-02 13:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it is a matter of pride needing a/your woman to bail you out of trouble....traditionally men were are supposed to be the provider...when he is unable to do so it is a blow to his self-esteem...oh and puleeeese don't let the word out to his friends or family..just adds insult to his injury...
2006-12-02 13:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋