My BF raped me in his house last night help me he is 19 im 18 help!!It was my first time also he laughed the whole time then dumbed me :-( we were going out a month
2006-12-02 05:01:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I told him to stop them he covered my mouth and tied me down to the bed :-( im going to the hospital soon and i didnt take a shower i will get professonal help thank you :-)
2006-12-02 05:20:47 · update #1
dancing_in_the_hail thank you :-)
2006-12-02 05:22:01 · update #2
umm..u definately need to tell someone or get help..
2006-12-02 05:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Blake C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh... I'm so sorry this happened to you. You should go to the doctor before you shower to get a rape kit taken. Take your panties so they can test it for his semen. I hope you didn't shower away any semen residue. This is very important... and really should have been done last night for the best results. Go to the police. You have to.... He may have done this to another girl... or he WILL do this to another girl. You've got to stand up for yourself and seek justice where you deserve it. Don't let him get away with this. When men rape women it is for power and control which is more than likely the reason he was laughing the whole time... what a total jerk! Go to the doctor, then to the police ASAP! You didn't deserve this to happen to you. I'm sorry you had to lose your virginity like that. Don't try to let him get away with what he did to you. Rape is a felony and should be punished by the law.
2006-12-02 05:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Repenting 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, take a deep breath.
Okay. I know this is tough. Take all your clothes that you wore at his house...all of them. Don't shower. Go to the nearest emergency room and tell the nurse what happened. They will do a rape kit to get his semen/DNA sample, to make sure he didn't give you any STDs, and give you a "morning after" pill to make sure you don't get pregnant. They will also help you if you were injured physically in any way. They will offer help in the way of having someone to talk to about this. They will then have an officer come in and take a report of what happened and discuss what charges you want to press against him.
Do NOT keep this to yourself. How would you feel if he went and did this to someone else just because you didn't stand up and say something. Protect yourself, and protect other women. You can do this. Be brave and strong.
2006-12-02 05:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by dancing_in_the_hail 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You really need to report him to the police! He has robbed you of a moment that is suppose to be so special "you're FIRST time" You can never get that again and for him to steal that from you , he should be punished! The minute you said "no" or "stop"and he didn't, it became rape! No matter what he tries to tell you. He must be a sicko to laugh while rapping you! Make him pay.
2006-12-02 05:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jay-j 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry this happened to you.
Tell your parents then file a police report with the police charging him with rape.
Hopefully, you went to the hospital where they could do a rape kit/exam for evidence that he raped you. Save the clothing and don't wash until you get to the hospital.
2006-12-02 05:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call the police ASAP. There is a rapist on the loose. If you haven't showered yet, don't. I don't know if there is still time to get biological evidence, but don't take any chances. I am so sorry this happened to you, and I wish I could help more.
2006-12-02 05:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Report him to the police! Rape is NOT a joke. I have been there girl and it is very difficult, I know, but you have to do it for your own sake! It doesn't matter that you are 18, if you did not consent, then he is a rapist! Go to the police; there is probably still enough evidence on you to prove it. Please do this!
2006-12-02 05:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sweet heart you have to tell the police. and then get checked out at the hospetal. dont wait, cuz the more you wait the less evendice you have. Trust me im going thrugh the same thing. Also get some cousoling. You will need it.
2006-12-02 05:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm not a girl but there is only one thing you could do. Before telling anyone, hunni call the police! Give a complete discription of the boy and the address of this house. Hurry!
2006-12-02 05:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Go to the hospital, get checked out, file a report, no one deserves this, stay away from him and talk to someone about it.
2006-12-02 05:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by googirl29 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy. But I have to tell you to call the police. You can't let people do stuff like that. Either that or if he lives close to me tell me his address and I will go deal with him( not kill him just deal with him)
2006-12-02 05:04:43 · answer #11 · answered by lend322 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋