This is for a project:
ok, you and ur gf/bf are in a really bad fight during your date at a restraunt. The last words you said to your bf/gf before they drive off were "I hate you we're through." or another form of hateful words just as bad. Five seconds late, ur bf/gf gets into a freak car accident which results in a coma. How would you feel?
2006-12-02 04:59:15 · 19 answers · asked by K 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like a what if scenario where you would believe that the accident was indirectly your own fault. If you had said something different or tried to make the peace your partner would still be alive and well. If the guilt cut too deep you would even start tracing events back to the cause of the argument and not just the argument in the restaurant possibly even blaming yourself for that. A chain of events leading straight to the accident at which you would constantly wish you had taken another route. Of course that is dependent on whether you really loved that person. There are heartless people out there who would think it was the partners fault and they are to blame or deserved it.
2006-12-02 05:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms; the same as anyone with feelings. Sorry for the way things ended and hope that the person will be okay. But, you can not change the past. What happened happened. You could go on and on about what ifs but, the bottom line is the person drove off mad and more than likely did something stupid which caused the accident. Be supportive and visit but, you can not take the blame for something you had no control over. Hope this helps. & yes i have feelings.
2006-12-02 05:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would feel like an asshole, because even though those words were spoken, it was in the heat of the moment. We tend to say things we know will hurt the other person when were ourselves feel threaten. But if that person was in a coma i would go and visit them just the same. besides even if you really did mean what you said, how the hell are they going to know you are there anyway right. at least you can make peace with the situation and ask them for forgiveness at the bedside. PS. don't blame yourself for the accident, life in never a guaranteed.
2006-12-02 05:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd sense quite freaked out!! yet i'd understand deep down in my heart that it wasn't my fault. each body says issues they don't mean contained in the nice and cozy temperature of the on the spot. i'd bypass and visit my bf/gf, and stay with the help of their area so as that they could understand that that they had my help. even if that in case you felt it change into quite over, it would not' harm to tutor some compassion. Even slightly prayer does no longer harm. the more serious element to do might want to be to react the activities on your head over and yet over again.. this can purely force you loopy.. existence has a distinct plan for each body and we cant' replace particular issues , and it truly is purely one among many. Natashal
2016-11-23 12:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hate and feel awful abt my self
I bet I would go sit with him and take care of him till he gets out of the coma and then ask for forgiveness and tell him he means the world to me and I love
2006-12-02 05:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you get this idea from some comic-book or a flop film????
Well, if you ask me, I would take some flowers to the hospital, sit near her bed where she will be lying and then kiss her. Finaly I will say to her, "See you is the next life" Then go away.
2006-12-02 05:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel really really bad, like if he didnt survive the last thing i had told him was that i hated him,, goddddd its not worth thinking about is it, but if he did survive i'd make it up to him forever and be his perfect girlf and treat him like a king, and thank god for bringin him back to me,
2006-12-02 05:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by amyday82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terrible.
2006-12-02 05:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would feel horrible because i would start blaming myself for his accident.. i would also feel regret knowing that the last thing he thought of before the coma was our breakup
2006-12-02 05:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel like ****. I dont know when I would ever be able to forgive myself for being so crude.
2006-12-02 05:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋