I could not find myself being with her in that way(yes I'm straight).We had been friends for several years. I had been with a few women of other races and had no problems. This ended our friendship and she called me racist. Is this true?
2006-12-02 04:55:44 · 10 answers · asked by T J ! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that this maynot be true You stated that she was a good friend, meaning that you saw as such and couldn't cross those lines, and you may have seen her ar just thet no more, or less. Sometimes we have friends that mush be kept in the speacail place , we see them as just friends thalike brother or sisters.i think that may have been the case. Unless their are other factors the we have no knowledge of.
2006-12-02 05:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by silkieladyinthecity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a hard time thinking of myself with someone of the opposite race but not because I don't like them it just wasn't something I felt that I would want to go through. Society can be cruel but I never had the oppurtunity to be with some of the other race but if I loved that person that is more important to me than what they look like.
2006-12-02 13:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsay H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just wasnt attractive. Have you ever been attracted to ANY black women? If you have, then no. If you havent and cant seem to find them attractive, doesnt mean you're racist..but black women just dont appeal to you...hahaha and as a black/asian/indian...i dont know how anyone couldnt find black women attractive....we're the best!! hahaha
2006-12-02 12:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it does not make you racist, especiallly if you had been with other women of different races. It's simply of a matter of that this particular girl did not turn you on.
2006-12-02 12:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by mbeast16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably but there's nothing wrong with that. Wanting to be with someone from you own race is perfectly normal. The media has tried to demonize the word(and white people) since the 1960's.
2006-12-04 00:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by 14Words 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's ok to NOT be attracted to her. That doesn't make you a racist.
IF you don't like her ONLY because she's black. That's bad.
Do you like Haley Berry? Janet Jackson (earlier years)? Vanessa Williams?
2006-12-02 13:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I've have plenty of friends that I just couldn't be more with. Usually it's the friends you're closest to that you can't see yourself with. You're not racist.
2006-12-02 12:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by Nadja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you are not attracted to some women, does not make you a raciest, I do not find all men attractive, and it has nothing to do with their race it is simply you choice
2006-12-02 13:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not racist....i could not picture dating outside of my race....it's like a common bond thats already understood....except for black male celebs (lol) they have jungle fever!!!
2006-12-02 12:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
maybe you just werent that in to her and she got pissed off. and pulled that card to use on you
2006-12-02 12:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by browneyedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋