ok so im Bi and i have a huge crush on my bestfriend but she's straight and she has a boyfriend plus im always having sexual dreams about us together is somthing wrong with me?
2006-12-02 04:53:55 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley D 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
of course there is nothing wrong with you.
you're just going throught that crushin phase where you cant stop thinking about the person you like and in this case it just happens to be a girl.
2006-12-02 13:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by ~* 3 Months Prego*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confused arent you. You are also young. You cannot have it both ways. Women are a beauty that no man can compare with. Making love to a women is absolutely the most beautiful earthly pleasure there is. Were I a women I might be gay, except for my love of God. You need to turn your attention from what you cannot have, your best friend, and wait for that which is hard to come by, a real man. I mean a man that understands that women stand beside them as a partner and equal. That giving pleasure to her is pleasure itself, and that receiving pleasure from her is an added bonus. That washing dishes if a party for two, as is household chores, shopping and raising children. You seem to be infatuated with what is not attainable, and God rightly so. Focus your attentions on what is reality a good relationship with God first, your other needs will be met when you find yourself living the good life he intends for us all, who believe.
2006-12-02 05:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered that you might not be bi, but that you just have a crush on your friend? Having a crush feels a lot like being in love, but it is really a sense of great admiration that draws you to the person... you think about them constantly, want to be around them.... basically, you want to HAVE them. And though it feels like love, it really isn't. If you are not physically and emotionally (romantically) attracted to women in general - but only to your friend - it is highly likely that this is just a crush. Then again, maybe you are lesbian and your feelings for males isn't really real. Give yourself time for your feelings to mature and develope. Give yourself an honest unemotional assessment to help you realize what it is you really want. I hope you the best.
-Rev. Jim Cunningham
GayChristianSurvivors.com
2006-12-02 05:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by hmghosthost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the way you word things, it seems like you're WAY too young to even know what you are and what you want. This is probably a phase you're going through. Don't tell your friend about your crush on her
2006-12-02 05:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I think actually everyone is a to a point. find your self your own boyfriend and everything will fall into place. it may be just a fantasy.the fun part is to keep it to your self to enjoy.that is what makes it exciting. in reality you may not really like it or want it.
2006-12-02 05:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong.what do you want.... and can you life without the friendship... often if friends take it to the next level the friendship goes out the window and after the interlude the friendship can not be revived....can you handle that? if so go for it with a sincere conversation revealing your feelings to her.....only one life make yourself happy.
2006-12-02 04:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mars 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i am the same way..well it depends on if u told her ur like that and if shes cool with it maybe make a move but like alil slw like a note or something...it might work...u never know
2006-12-02 08:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to find out if she would ever consider having sex with another female or has she ever thought about it. if she says yes then tell her if no then you shouldn't it may make her uncomfortable and cause friction in your relationship.
2006-12-02 05:00:11 · answer #8 · answered by desperate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are confused, honey. If your friend is straight ,then leave it alone. the dreams are because its on your mind so much, put your focus elsewhere.
2006-12-02 04:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by srstephens 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your bi probably not.
2006-12-02 04:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋