We've been together a while. We have issues, but that comes with relationships. It's been confirmed so many times that we are destined for greatness. I've been a jerk and she's been nothing, but great. She does neglect my needs sometimes and that does make me feel insecure. I mean we never kiss or hug. That can really damamge a guy like me. I really love this woman. We are enegaged to be married March 17th ,but she's called it off. I feel that if God has confirmed this thing we should have no problems, but that's not the case. I knew the enemy would try to make his presence felt. I pray to God we can overcome this thing and get married. I'm willing to put in the work and EARN my way back to her. She's so much more than my woman. She's my bestfriend, my partner and my soul-mate. We've been through storms before, not because of her but me. In reality I'm not like most men. I'm 26 and very faithful and respectful. I ove her and only want her time. I really just want time and affection!
2006-12-02 04:43:32 · 5 answers · asked by Jonah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
With a name like Jonah, you should know the things that God puts in front of us, is always for our own good. Obedience is the key here, work on yourself and God will work on her. First you must trust and allow God's plan to work, not yours. His answer is never NO !! Read the promise in Jeremiah 33:3
2006-12-02 04:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry! This is going to hurt a little, but I must give you my honest opinion and it is just that so you must do what you want in the end because it is your right.
Love does not have to be complicated and it should not be. God does not dwell in the mist of confusion. When you say you have issues, people who love and care for each other do not let them simmer and become bigger ones.
It seems you need to get yourself together before trying to have a relationship with this woman of your dreams that is currently presenting like nightmare!
You are 26 and still young. This is not the end of your life. Wait on God and the soul-mate, best friend and partner for life will fit in like a puzzle as will hers.
It hurts now, but love is not a complicated thing when it is mutual!
I got the wrong end of the stick twice and now I will take Gods advice instead of giving Him mine and hoping He makes someone else snaps to what I feel. Listen to her (really listen to her and do not try to make her feelings your feelings: if you really care for her, you will really want her to be happy even if that includes not being with you).
Obedience is far better than sacrifice. Wait I say on the Lord.
But do what you have to do. I hope this helps you. You do have your free will and I am not a therapist nor do I pretend to be one. Perhaps a good therapist and pastor or clergy can assist you.
Take care o.k. Sometimes time will make all the difference in the world!
2006-12-02 05:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a none-beleiver, I do know quite about about God having grown up in a Christian household. If you truly follow the teachings of the Bible, maybe you're looking at this wrong. Maybe her calling the wedding off is a sign for you to reconsider your relationship. Maybe He's trying to gently let you know NOW that this isn't a good idea. You say that she's YOUR best friend, YOUR soulmate, YOUR partner. But are you all those things to HER? A relationship is two-sided. One person cannot be the only committed to making it work, it absolutely must go both ways. If you beleive this is a sign from God, use it and get out now because he may give you another sign, but it won't be until after you marry this girl and she cheats on you (or something worse). Best of luck.
2006-12-02 05:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by Spudnic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 01:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by barby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever done something special? Like laying roses on the bed and having candles lit? Me and my boyfrined had a rough time and I was thinking about leaving him but one night he picked me up from my house and braught me to his and he was walking me to his room and opened it!!! It was beautiful! He had rose peddles from the door to the bed then a dozen roses on the bed and since then everything has been so good he tries to make me happy like that from now on!
2006-12-02 04:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by jessica p 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋