Ive been married for 6 yrs with a man who can barely bring home $200 a week and spends 75% of it on himself and i suspect his women. Has the nerve to call me lazy when a work a fulltime job which makes $1000 a week, come home tend my 2 yr old kid, tend his sorry *** and by the way i pay all the bills. He never comes home at the time he says he will be here, doesnt pick up the phone when i call him any women call him here 24/7 so what should i do! Im not gonna kill myself anymore over this loser hes not even worth my time. but heres the great part, i just called him and alas no answer but i called the woman i suspect hes with and wala i hear his voice in the backround and i found pics of her touching his leg near his penis and he was touching her ***. Im so pissed i can kick his *** but i wanna him to leave without a penny from here! How can i get rid of this jerk and live again?!
2006-12-02 04:39:35 · 35 answers · asked by Bryanna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If his name is NOT on the house/lease papers, you can call the police and have him escorted out of the home. In other words, instantly kicked out.
If his name IS on the house/lease papers, get a divorce lawyer NOW and file for divorce. If you want to stay where you are living now, you might have to deal with his sorry ars a little longer until the divorce is final. If you do not want to live where you are now, move out and leave the bills for him!
Either way, divorce him and don't fall for the old "but I love you baby" line.
Stay strong, you deserve MUCH better! So does your kid!
2006-12-02 04:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by duck's attitude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK.Here is how I think I see it He cheat's on you. he brings home $200.00 a week you bring home $1,000.00 a week.75% of 200=$150.00.You have a 2 year old that has to eat were clothes needs toy's at the cost of $50.00+ a week You clean cook do the wash watch the baby feed change the baby.Your pay for what you do at home should be no less than $400.00 a week.but after paying all the bills for this lazy asshole you are getting less than $.50 a hour.I don't know about the rest of the guy's that are answering your question but I think you are getting screwed and there is no way you can enjoy the way your getting screwed.Now after I have taken up your valued time My answer to your question is!! Tell him to GET THE HELL OUT AND GO TO HIS WHORE AND SEE HOW LONG SHE WILL PUT UP WITH THAT BULLSHIT.You are to good for him Tell him that I said so.I hate lazy people Good luck with the new MAN you are going to have in your life Good luck You can and will do so much better next time.Love JerryI wish I were single.I would take good care of you and your baby.
2006-12-02 05:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a new bank and open new accounts in your name only and get a P.O. box for yourself so nothing come home where he might see.
Since you have your own funds put them into you acc. where he can not get to. Stop using credit cards that have both your names or better yet stop all charges on joint one and get new ones for just yourself.
Hire a detective to follow him for a week or so, It would be easier for him to leave but he won't unless forced which would be a bad seen in front of the kid.
So you should copy those pictures and give to a lawyer to hold, you should have taped the phone call, and get all the evidence you can for court and the police.
Pay none of his own personal bills, take cards and accounts away from his use. Start looking for a new place to start a new life with your kid.
You have your sh*t together so get going on the rest of your life.
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-12-02 04:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk. OK - now gain your composure and don't do anything drastic out of emotion. It may come back to haunt you - if it comes to a custody battle.
Document everything. His pay - your pay - pictures, dates, phone calls etc.
Get a lawyer consultation or find out what the laws are in your state. In some states, if you make more than him, he can get support from you. But if you have a child, and you should get custody, then he should get nothing.
Let the other broad have his lazy a--.
Good Luck
2006-12-02 04:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by ump2please 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him out of your life right now then tell him to pack up his things and get out NOW! Then after he leaves have all the locks on the house changed so he can't get in. At the same time file for divorce and let your attorney handle the matter. Get a good attorney by asking people you know who is a good attorney and is reputable and will fight for you.
2006-12-02 04:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, honeykiss,,
You got “snookered” by a horn dog,, it happens to women very often. (men to for that matter) Stop beating yourself up over horn dog’s actions and low/no morals.!!
Get a good attorney kick his *** to the curb, and get the attorney to mug him and steal all his money while he’s down. (horn dog's got years of expensive child support in his future,, LOL) I wouldn’t move out,, if you living in your home while horn dog is out making his booty calls,, kick his rear out, and keep the house yourself !! After all there is a child involved and as of right now that child is the only person worth your time/energy! (besides yourself of course)
Any male can be a sperm donor,, take’s a real MAN to be a Dad and Husband !!!
2006-12-02 04:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by logicalanswer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there before. He's out right now? Call a locksmith and change all of the locks - right now! If you have access to his bank or account - get it. If you don't, cut your losses now and have the locks changed. If he wants his stuff tell him his other woman should be able to provide him with something until the police can meet him and you where you live. Get him out.
2006-12-02 04:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by Tricia B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get an attorney to file for divorce. Because he is the cheater, the court will sympathize with you. Get his butt kicked out of the house permanently. The house can be yours with the child.
2006-12-02 04:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the good thing is that loser wont be able to get a attorney on 200 a week lol divorce his butt. and get him for child support!!! as a man with a vindictive ex child support was the only way she could get to me.
2006-12-02 04:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by dmand1174 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some retard gave you a thumb down and no comment. I evened it up for you.
So...just file for divorce and put the reason as him cheating. If you have pix, that's the proof.
Good for you. Dump him and find someone that will be a benefit to your life and not a hindrance.
2006-12-02 04:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋