well my boyfriend and i love eachother very much and i went to his friends house and he was there and we were alone in the room but we didnt do nothing gross like sex but my boyfriend at the end of the night he slipped a condom in my pocket what does that mean? does that mean that he wants to do it with me?
2006-12-02 04:30:22 · 38 answers · asked by mgfizzle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes it was a pretty big hint. It sounds as if you are not ready for that. You should wait until you are older.
2006-12-02 04:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by nettyone2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well - first off - I'm concerned that you think that sex is gross....
Its where we all come from, and should be enjoyable for both the girl and the boy.
As to why he slipped you a condom - I'd guess he was suggesting the two of you go there - but I can't say that for sure, since I'm not him, and I might do it for a number of reasons.
If you're really close to him, conversation wise, I'd suggest asking him...
If not - he might be pushing - which is uncool...
-dh
2006-12-02 20:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I know you love each other very much. But is it worthy doing something you might regret later? Think about stuff like that. Condoms don't protect from everything. A rip dould come about and you can get pregnant or HIV/AIDS. And they have no limit with age or looks. But I thinks that what it means. But before you take that daring step are you sure that he loves you. Or is he just going to get it and go. Think about all that before you do it. Hope this helps.
2006-12-02 04:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Shizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is the question here. Are you guys old enough to accept responsibility for an accident if the condom breaks. Beware little girl and discuss this with your mom.
2006-12-02 04:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he slipped a condom in your pocket it would usually mean he is ready to but if he loves u as much as u say then if ur not ready i bet u anything he would wait as long as he has to.
2006-12-02 04:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're not in trouble...yet. I'm sure your boyfriend is ready, but the real question is 'are you ready?' if you think sex is gross, then you should wait awhile longer. You're not ready and that's okay. Just let him know.
2006-12-02 04:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by LittleFreedom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hinting that he would like to take the relationship to the next step.
If you are not ready yet ... like it sounds, tell him that you are not ready yet, if he loves you he will respect your wishes.
Sex isn't gross babe, but you should always wait till you are ready .... and old enough !!
Good luck
x
2006-12-02 04:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yea the is a sure sign that he wants you but make sure you are readya nd not being pressured because its your virginity and once you loose that thats it so really think about it before you just jump into the sack with him!I would wait until i was married but for me it was not going to happen i was raped at 13 so just make sure this is what you really want!!
2006-12-02 04:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by JINE GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not in trouble. The condom is a signal that he wants to be intimate with you and protect you from the consequences of pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease. Please wait until you are 18 and of legal age!
2006-12-02 04:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he put one of thoes in ur pocket, of course he wants it. but if u not ready just let him know, and if he doesn't accept how you feel, I would think it's time 2 find another boyfriend.
2006-12-02 04:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋