He was violent and extremely controlling.
He would leave for a week just because I asked him to hold the baby, Or simply cos I'd asked if he could feed her.
He once chased his boss with a machete and has severe paranoia due to drug addiction.
I left him nearly a year ago.
A few weeks ago I had a dream that I cut his toes off and stabbed him in the heart and he was left hobbling around.
Last night I dreamt he'd died.
I have no contact with him, Although on the 23 rd Dec I have to take the baby to the contact center so he can see her.
What do these dreams mean ????
2006-12-02 04:26:05 · 20 answers · asked by Elle J Morgan 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I did try to stay in contact for the baby's sake-I was told to leave him alone cos I was a fruitcake !!!
It was only when I filed for divorce and he realised that I had my address withheld that he wanted to know her
I asked for maintainance for her I was told I couldn't have any
He wanted a baby then when I was 8 weeks gone he wanted me to terminate.
2006-12-02 04:44:11 · update #1
whew, hectic dream. i would say that you cutting off his toes would mean that would mean that you made a choice to not let him just wonder into your life, you limited contact. stabbing him through the heart would be giving back the same amount of hurt he dished out to you. about him dying, i would say, you've totally let go of this guy and you are now being rewarded with the chance of a new start and the re-assurance that he won't be able to come back and harm you.
2006-12-02 04:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by taz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a relationship with a controlling, violent partner takes its toll on you. You maybe worried about 23rd in your subconscious mind, hence the dreams. Have you thought about counselling? I know it's behind you to an extent but there could be some stuff you still need to let out. Just a thought.
Well done for getting out of this destructive relationship...I know from personal experience it's not easy. Take care.
2006-12-02 04:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by kelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means you have cut him off from your life, stabbing him in the heart and him being dead means that he is hurting as your love for him is dead. What you dream is never the meaning its just a message. You walk away the winner, your free, hopefully happy and certainly rid off.
If he is good to baby and off the drugs make sure you encourage the father child relationship. What he did to you (although really bad and wrong) shouldnt mean your daughter gets to miss out on potentially precious moments with her dad. My daughters dad doesnt see our daughter and that hurts, my daughter always asks for her daddy and i wish nothing more than for her to have him.
Good luck in the future and stay strong!
2006-12-02 04:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, mim1978h
You have deep rooted “hate” issues you haven’t resolved yet. It’s got nothing to do with you still having “feeling” for him. Get some professional help so you can forgive him and yourself. (him for being the *&^%^% he is and,,,, yourself for allowing yourself to put up with it for how ever long as you did. You have lots better things to spend your time/energy’s on right?? Like you and your child.
Get those issues resolved and the “ex” dreams will stop.
2006-12-02 04:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by logicalanswer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitly sound scared of him, but in your dreams you stood up to him, now that's what ya gotta do in real life. I'm not saying to play the dream out. Just be confident when you do see him and don't let him bring you down when you see him..
2006-12-02 04:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by truebeing3030 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you need to get more sleep, real restful sleep, forgive him but stay way from him he is truly a piece of $hit, and like all $hit he carries disease and pestilence in his soul and will infect all that are close to him.
2006-12-02 04:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to him having access through the contact centre, we got a similar nutter in our family. Its best to be safe.
2006-12-04 08:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After all that he did to you...i think you wish him dead...it sounds to me like he put u through hell...seek counseling for yourself and try to limit ur daughter's contact with him...good luck
2006-12-02 04:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by Michele 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are dredding the meet. I cna't say I blame you, good luck.
2006-12-03 00:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by Julia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that you have not completely dealt with the life you had. i feel you may need to seek help from counselling
i wish you luck and happiness with your future
2006-12-02 05:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by PETER J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋