my best friend knows that i'm in love with the guy that she broke up with about 2 months ago. then last week, she decided to go out with him again. now, this guy has been one of my best friends since 2nd grade and we're so close. my best friend already went out with him twice and broke his heart both times. im really worried for the guy cause she's just gonna break up wtih him again and he's gonna get all depressed again.
Can somebody please help me!? should i be mad at her for going out with the guy she knows im in love with? should i try to get over the guy? please help me someone!
2006-12-02 04:06:56 · 5 answers · asked by jenniec 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They are both doing what they want to do.
My advice is to do something you never did before - stay away from both of them so you an get yourself together and so they can have the relationship without you. This could accomplish two things:
1. Then they may breakup for good and 2. he may begin to miss you and realize that he likes you better.
2006-12-02 04:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some advice, friends don't do that to one another. This guy knows what she is about and your not going to change his mind and when he needs a shoulder to cry on I am sure you will be there as you have been before. But he knows exactly what he is getting himself into. As for you being in Love with him. Move on and find someone just for yourself who has not been with your "so called friend". Someone who is just for you. You sound young and I think you will be in this situation many more times in your life before you are TRULY IN LOVE. So don't sweat it and ride the wave go out and have fun and meet new people you will be surprised at how many times you think you are in Love before you find your Mr. Right. Be happy don't worry so much about everyone else they can take care of themselves.
2006-12-02 12:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. When I was in high school I fell in love with my best friend. It made me so angry and upset to see him dating my friends.Years went by and I never did a thing. Until one day I did and he said," why didnt you tell me". My advice to you is to let your friend know how you feel. Tell her how much it hurts you to see her with him. And then tell him how you feel about him. Its the only way to make yourself feel better. Let it out. as hard as it is to do. I think in the long run its better to say whats on your mind then hold it in and make yourself sick. I hope everyhting works out. You never know, he might have feelings for you too.
2006-12-02 12:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by D C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think twice broken heart breaks again? You don't need to worry about him. just leave them alone and just be friends if possible.
2006-12-02 14:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by saraa_05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you need to tell her let it out that is the only way you are going to stop thinking about it!Good luck
2006-12-02 12:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋