2006-12-02 03:53:55 · 32 answers · asked by sact 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
premature ejaculation is the word so take him to the doctors to be referred to a sex therapist
2006-12-06 01:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by arfa54321 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a common problem and nothing to be ashamed of or worried about. You can both help each other. I don't know how far I can go on here but there's an exercise he can perform to stop it happening and he can also exercise a little self control. He's probably so excited he can't help himself. Without knowing the full details I cant really say.
Stick a search in for premature ejaculation and read up on it. You'll have some fun helping him at least!!!
2006-12-02 04:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by Missing Link 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite common in men (no matter what they say). there not wimps, less than a man or anything else that people say. He simply has an over active mind.
I suffered from this for years. The best cure I found was to stop at the moment of cumming, hold the base of his penis and then carry on. What you are doing is building up the mussle at the base of the penis. Your boyfriend will sone learn to control it himself after a while. Also use the same technic for masterbating.
The other one is to make him *** before intercourse. He will last longer and feel more relaxed about sex (that helps to)
Hope this helps
Tripperscot :-))
2006-12-03 05:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Bane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well looks like you have had the silly answers already. It is a very common issue. You might want both to use your foreplay differently, dont let this become a hang-up otherwise you will both end up tense when this should be enjoyable and loving.
If he is getting over-sensitized, the he needs to think about something else, to cool his passion in some way, just use a little imagination!
Lots of website advice if you search for it, otherwise ask your friendly doctor or therapist for advice.
2006-12-02 05:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by kenjinuk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite a common problem in young men mostly.
The solution is in avoiding any genital contact with him,because by the time it comes to penetration he is so sexually aroused that he won't be able to hold on.
Kiss cuddle,but don't touch him down there,let him make love to you,but when he wants to enter you,don't let him, distract him.Sounds really mean eh! it's just a case of getting him to control his orgasm.
He may be able to do this on his own, or with you if you like when masturbating, just before ejaculation slow down or stop,it's all a matter of timing.
Be patient with him,don't get at him about it, taunts about such a thing could have a permanent affect on him.
Let him satisfy you before himself, and that way even if it takes a little longer before he manages to control himself you will have had your orgasm, therefore you won't be so frustrated and your patience level will be higher.
But let me add, when youv'e reached your climax, don't forget about him, you must then let him enter you in order to satisfy himself,as it would be most unfair on him not to. With love and patience you will be able to reach climax at the same time, only practice makes perfect.
Sex is a very complicated thing to get just right,very few couples enjoy good sex straight away. But practising getting it right is good fun. Eventually you will get it right and things will be great.
Be patient loving and careing and you will both reap the benefits of your endeavours in the long run. GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-02 18:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by animalwatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth is that God designed men to come rapidly. If you watch any two animals shagging, the male finishes in SECONDS< not minutes. Human beings no different.
he should take a low-dose codeine tablet some 4-5 hours before sex. this will delay him a long time. Also he can jerk off earlier that day - then he will last somewhat longer when he enters you.
What U describe is actually very common. It means he's very wired up and ready to explode. Doesn't surprise me.
2006-12-02 04:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-22 03:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is experiencing premature ejaculation.
Times when I've not lasted as long as I would have liked it to have lasted it all had to do with the vision of which I was seeing and what has built up in my brain during the day and during foreplay. We men tend to go more on the visual aspect prior to and during sex.
2006-12-02 04:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by supressdesires 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like he does not have much experience and is getting too excited.
Have oral sex first, both c*m togther, they get each worked up again for have full sex. I know that it takes me longer to c*m after the first time. He should also have got over the initial excitement and you can enjoy a long bonk.
2006-12-02 04:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by benn26k 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Normal, the idea is to either get him off before he comes --in other words, give him a hand, then wait maybe 30 minutes then have sex, or tell him to keep on working, and please you, then he may stay hard and come again in a while. Twice is better than once everytime.
2006-12-02 15:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a lot.
I had same problem. Solved by having circumcision (Low & tight) with complete removal of the fremulum. It reduced a lot of feeling
2006-12-06 01:54:45 · answer #11 · answered by Armand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋