i have this cousin that is the same age as me. i hate her so much, i want to slap her! it started since i was born, she would talk sh!t behind my back, and she still does. she tries turning people behind my back like them. also, she ruined my reputation for life! next year, i will be going in hi-school and thank God she isn't coming. please tell me how do i get back at her
2006-12-02 03:16:52 · 25 answers · asked by gaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first of all, im sure she hasnt been taling about you since you were born, if she is the same age as you, also, no your reputation is not ruined for life,, your reputation is how those around you view you, or those who know of you view you,,,,,, as you mature and go out into the world, your circle of people will be totally different,,,, the best way to "get back at her" is to develop yourself into a intelligent, happy, mature young woman,,,, and do well, put aside the anger,,,, be pleasant to her when you must see her,,,, raise yourself above her level,,,,, that will really get on her nerves!!!!!!
2006-12-02 03:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by dlin333 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By the time you get to high school your feeling and things will change. You will start to grow up. I've been there. I had the same thing happen to me. But when I got to high school and started doing other things and started to grow up then I realized how much better I was then her and what a big waste of time it would be. She sounds like she is just jealous of you. You are better then her and she knows it. Her life isn't all that great. So she is going to try and make yours suck to.
2006-12-02 03:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"The best revenge is to live well"
Become an Honor Student
Become very popular
Become Prom queen
Get a hot boyfriend
Get a bunch of cool friends
etc...
But the most important thing you can do is forgive your cousin. You are family, and these times is just a phaze. You wouldn't want to have immature unreasonable grudges as adults.
Good Luck
2006-12-02 03:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
why would you even bother? getting revenge on her makes you just like her. be the better person and move on.as far as her ruining your reputation, people are going to think what they want to think.no matter what someone says. so move on. be thankful she is not going to be going to the same school as you.make new and better friends.if you put your efforts into being a bright and successful person that will be the sweetest revenge possible.
2006-12-02 03:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by here to help 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge can be fun sometimes, but it's childish and if you DO get revenge wouldn't you be the same as her? Why would you go that low? I don't think you know the meaning of the word family.
2006-12-02 03:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Alterna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge won't make it better. Why do you want to stoop to her level? All you have to do is NOT CARE what she says or does and if people believe lies that she is telling, then that's their fault. Your real friends will stick by your side and trust you. Screw everyone else. Don't worry about what they think.
2006-12-02 03:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get back at her by working past your resentment for her- she is taking up useful and valuable space in your mind- bypass her by becoming successful, focusing on academics, relationships and goals for the future. She will stay stuck and you will overcome!!!
2006-12-02 03:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by soberlunatic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore her and tell her u dont care then what ever her most prize positon destroy it... but u know if u get revenge then she wants to do the same thing so the cycle never ends
2006-12-02 03:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by Imperfection At Its Finest. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mentioned God.....and if you are of Christian faith, you are going down the wrong path. We must pray and forgive. Your writing has much anger and anger is one of the 7 deadly sins. Reach for your Bible and always remember to treat others as you want to be treated!
2006-12-02 03:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by Houston Hopeful 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
success is the best revenge. be a better person than her.people will see this and that will make her look like a petty little piece of s**t
2006-12-02 03:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by punkbun03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋