I really like this guy, and we're really good friends. And all "our" friends that we hang out w/ tell me that we make a cute couple and that we should go out. But I don't know if he likes me. You see there's this girl, and everyone says she's a h0e, and she flirts with the guy that I like, and it seems like he flirting back, but it also seems like he flirts with me more, because we always walk together to our 5th period class after lunch, and we see a lot of each other in the hallways and he always give me a smile, what should I do with out ruining our friendship? Who do you thinks he likes more me or that h0e?
2006-12-02 03:16:22 · 5 answers · asked by lil miss country gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think you should have a mutual friend find this out for you. if you don't have any of those then take a chance!! you have to risk if you want to win.
2006-12-02 03:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Ven 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it has to be all this, then you're not ready to date. Wait until you're older and more mature. A lot of guys will play as many girls as they can and it's not worth it to compete for a guy. All that will happen at your age is a lot of name calling and fighting. If a guy really likes you, then they'll be no competition. He'll see to that. You have a friend to walk to 5th period class with and let it go at that. Smile and speak when you see this guy and keep going. There's no need to ask this guy out because if a guy wants to go out with you, then he'll do the asking. Do not put pressure on yourself worrying if a guy likes you or if another girl likes him. Use that time and energy for something more constructive life preparing for your post high-school education.
2006-12-02 19:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETY BE IN COMPETITION WITH THIS OTHER GIRL, DOESN'T MAKE HER AN "HOE" IT MAKES HER THE OTHER GIRL. WHICH BY THE WAY, IF YOU DON'T GET A GRIP REALLY QUICK IS GOING TO BE YOUR FUTURE PROBLEM. LOOK...JUST BECAUSE YOU LIKE HIM DOESN'T MEAN SOMEONE ELSE CAN'T FIND HIM CUTE TOO,AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE BEING CALLED A" HOE" YOU REALLY SHOULDN'T CALL HER A" HOE" FOR FELLING ABOUT THIS GUY THE WAY YOU DO. YOU GIRLS REALLY NEED TO STOP CALLING EACH OTHER "HOES". THAT MIGHT BE ONE OF THE REASONS GUYS WON'T STOP CALLING YOU LADIES "HOES". JUST BECAUSE SOME STUPID *** ON A VIDEO CALLS YOU LADIES "HOES" DOESN'T MAKE IT SO. IF YOUR COMMUNICATION SKILLS ARE ANY GOOD YOU MIGHT WANT TO SIT DOWN AND TALK TO YOUR GUY FRIEND ABOUT "YOUR HANG UPS". HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO CLEAR UP SOME OF " YOUR " ISSUES. DON'T GO LOOSIN' YOUR FRIEND OVER YOUR SELFCONFEDENCE ISSUES. THIS IS A "SMALL" PROBLEM. FROM AN OUTSIDERS POINT OF VIEW ( AND YOU DID ASK )
2006-12-02 12:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Hollywood Marine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be as easy as taking him aside for some small talk..then saying " you know, I would like to go out sometime...are you up for it?"...Being blunt and direct instead of dancing around the issue will solve your problem quickly. If the date doesn't go well...then you can move on. If it does, and you guys click?? Just thank yourself for having the balls to ask him out.
Make the first move..and if necessary..the last one. That is what real women do.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-02 11:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll need to tell him how you feel face to face. That's the only way you can deal with any situation.
2006-12-02 11:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by Roger S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋