i think im falling for a friend who i also work with. everytime i see her i go weak in knees. i get on with her very well. at first i was just thinking about her some of the time but now im starting to think about her most of the time. i know this is not good cos i got a lovely girlfriend already. i do really love her to bits. id never cheat on my girlfriend. my life going ok at the moment. so i dont understand why i filling like this. i know this is wrong of me. anyone ever been in same boat???
2006-12-02 02:46:41 · 3 answers · asked by alan h 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We are attracted to who we are attracted to...however you have complete control over allowing yourself to "fall for" a friend...you can rein in your emotions and choose not to cross that line...apparently you've chosen to open your heart and therefore put yourself into the predicament you describe.
No, I've not been in the same boat because when I dig someone and am involved, I don't open myself up to fall for others...it's all about my partner as long as it's good and right for both of us...I may find other guys cute, I may make new friends, but there is no "falling for" anyone else because I wouldn't want my guy to allow himself to do that...
Treat others as you want to be treated...
2006-12-02 02:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in that. I reckon, u can stop urself from falling from someone. Stay away from them. Familiarity breeds feeling of love. Most importantly, its human nature to want what they can't have... thats why ur feeling for her is magnified more than usual..
2006-12-02 10:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by J*LO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-02 11:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by letgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋