Can you live being a single?

Question

Feels so difficult when you get dumped and broken hearted :((

Answer 1

Welcome to the Life of millions of people, I travel allot because my job requires it, and being Divorce and single I learn one thing, It's Good to be KING in my own world..

Answer 2

Yes, you can, and I think the whole idea is to love yourself first because you really can't depend on anyone else to make you happy. It is lonely, but it's only boring if you don't keep busy. I'm a pretty simple person, so I can keep busy just puttering around my home or going shopping (no, don't make spending money on things you don't need your new best friend). There are continuing education courses at the public schools or community college that you could look into or join the gym, volunteer at the hospital. When you are lonely, get out of the house and take a walk in the fresh air. Draw, paint, write, sew--find your creative niche. There is someone out there for you, so don't dwell on the past and love yourself and thank the Lord for your blessing and ask for a mate. Best wishes. P.S. Have you every considered getting a roommate. That can have it's problems, too, but it should work out if you have groundrules and similar standards/tastes.

Answer 3

The truth is, it is much easier because you do not have to consider the other person, you can do what you want when you want without having to wonder if you are hurting the other person feelings. It also states very clearly in the bible that it is best to be single but if you need to have sex then it says you should marry instead of being loose---get it?

It sounds like you are using other people to satisfy your own needs rather than going through the difficulty of learning how to be a whole person on your own.

There always seems to be pain and loneliness after being in a relationship, sorry for your misfortune but it could very well lead you into something much better and lasting.

Answer 4

I hope you read my response. After an heartbreaking experience, the best thing you can do is, immerse yourself in your favourite hobby, outside of your apartment/home. The busier you keep yourself the faster the "healing" process will begin. Don't let the emotions of "being dumped" change the course of you existence! This is NOT the worse thing that will happen to you in your lifetime! Believe me.

Answer 5

So sorry for yor pain..there are pros and cons to every situation. Unfortunatelly, you will not see the pros..KEEP busy!! Get in the shower as soon as you wake, put on the coolest thing you own..especially if you Do NOT feel like i!! Go get a new hair do..check out local activities!! Keep busy!! WE all deserve someone who treats us like a queen and vice versa!!

Answer 6

I've been divorced for seven years and enjoy the peace of mind, coming and going when I want, not dealing with a grouchy guy's mood swings, not being physically and mentally abused, spending my own money, not being lied to ... shall I go on?

Answer 7

Gosh, I empathise. When you just broke up with someone, it is a big change. You have to change your whole mindset. But I have learnt that it is better off being single than being with the wrong person..

Answer 8

I have been single for most of my life. I find that while it sucks not having someone to "come home to" : It is also much less restrictive when it comes to your social life.
Just party a lot and have fun. You will be fine.

Answer 9

Its hard to be single when you get older. You get lonely and sometimes feel that your life is boring and stale. You would have to have a lot of friends and activities to keep busy.

Answer 10

I love being single... I did. I was free to do whatever I wanted with my time and I was free to be close to all my female friends and all that. I am in love now and I would not give it up so I cant say that anymore.