i have a friend we have been together for 1 yr.we r like brothers.and before 1 month a new guy came and we both made friends with him.but i feel more comfortable with the new guy bcoz i think hez more like me and i relate alot to him.but my relation with the first 1 is the same i want the same kind of friendship with the 1st 1 as i had before.in the start when the new guy came the first one was like pretty comfortable with it.but now i feel that the first 1 tries to ignore me and doesn't want to go out with me as we used to go bfore.when i try to talk to him he says that hez busy.I really dont know what to do i am confused like ****.I want to have the same kind of friendship we used to have before...i hope u understand.pls help.pls tell me what to do.................
What i think of the situation........
i think that i should also ignore him when he needs me i he"ll come himself. But thats quite difficult for me!!
PLS HELP!
2006-12-02 02:22:50 · 2 answers · asked by asad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to him,i guess he's feeling left out and so doesn't want to ask like he does but instead tries to ignore you.Try talking to him tell him you really want to get back the way you guys where before this new guy came by,stuff that you're sure can touch him and make him change his mind.But if talking does work at first try calling him or leaving him messages.If he really appreciates the friendship you both had b4 this new guy came by he'll come around.So cheer bro.
2006-12-02 02:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's already feeling left out, don't ignore him. You're try to get reconciliation, not paybacks.
2006-12-02 10:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋