I love him always and will always will. We met again after 4 years. But he is in the US and I am in South America. He wants to come down to see me but he says he is not the same anymore as for health and money. I don't care, I love him for what he is. We are getting old and time flies fast. There is not that I can tell to make him believe that he is still good and that's him that I love. He even believes that, but he can not accept that a woman can live with an impotent guy. To me, it is his heart, his silly self that I love. Please, is there anything else to convince him? I need good English because I am not a native and sometimes as much as I write I mess up words and I don't want him to be confusing with my words. I know my English is not bad but I want some good advice that I can read and then try to tell him how I feel. Thanks for the help.
2006-12-02 01:53:44 · 8 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He needs convincing because men feel less than men when they cannot perform. There are medicines on the market which do help men perform, and they work wonders!(viagra, etc.)
I would write him the most heartfelt letter that you can expressing your love for him, The only question I would ask you is, Are you sure that is the only reason?
2006-12-02 02:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by dominicaquilino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your English is just fine for what you need to do. you tell that man just what you have told us. Tell him all the other things you love about him. As for a woman living with an impotant guy, here's a secret, many many women do already quiet as it's kept. Let him know that there are ways to give and get pleasure from each other besides old fashioned straight up and down sex and a woman is very capable of satisfying herself on occassion too. He should see a doctor and find out if there is anything that he can do about this, there might be.
Most important let him know that it is him that you love not the functions of a certain bodypart. Remind him that time is short, life is short to waste any moment of happiness. Who knows a change might do him good. Good Luck
2006-12-02 10:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go visit him.
The actual being together may help convince him of how much you love him. Before the visit, communicate with him about the suggestions other people have made, about medical solutions. I agree with those who say that when a man feels he cannot perform, he is reluctant to be in a relationship.
2006-12-02 10:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by DadOnline 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you say you love him no matter what, just tell him that you love him unconditionally and it doesn't matter what is happening to him.
2006-12-02 09:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound rather convincing.I guess just keep telling him If he were closer you could show him.
2006-12-02 09:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by morganslilone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a man,and he is right.women need to have sex.But all is up to you.Good luck.
2006-12-02 10:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to do fine.
2006-12-02 10:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him check with his doctors...there are procedures that can help with this problem....encourage him to research this....
2006-12-02 10:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by Dirtydog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋