is it possible to change a physo ***** like this.would you even try.I love this creature what can i do to make her normal?she goes to a shrink and they ask her for advise.please help me, i have even asked to go to a shrink with her.do you see a problem here?
2006-12-02 01:42:21 · 13 answers · asked by hyper guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You cannot "change" her only pray she gets better. I have bi-polar and I am not a "psycho". Evidently you don't need to be with her if you can't be understanding of her illness.
2006-12-02 01:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by jenniaj1973 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes she has problems that might be too big for you to handle. If she is totaly irresponsible are you willing to pick up the slack and look out for her? You cannot change her and she will not be "normal" She had serious problems that are not going to go away. If you love her and want to stay I suggest that you do go to a session with her and let the doctor explain just what you are getting yourself into here with this girl.
If you do not love her already than I would suggest you keep her as a friend maybe but look elswhere for your life's partner. This girl cannot make a partnership because she won't be able to hold up her end of it. Good Luck what ever you choose.
2006-12-02 01:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi polar is not an excuse to not pay bills, etc., just like it does not give you the right to commit murder. It can though cause these things to happen if she is not on medications. If she is willing to take the meds , then the other problems stem from another place. People who are bi polar all have different personalities from each other, and have other problems in their lives!
2006-12-02 02:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by dominicaquilino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bipolar (one word) and it's a chemical imbalance...you cannot change her...just like if she had cancer you could not cure her. She's got a mental illness and even with therapy and medications she may not ever be what you would consider "normal".
I've known plenty of bipolar people, and my best girlfriend was (is) bipolar and I can tell you that relationships of any kind with them can be tough...especially depending on how bad their illness is. I finally had to distance myself after she blew up at me one day (we'd been friends for over 20 yrs). Four years later she wanted to make-up and be friends again, but it wasn't worth the stress and drama for me.
You either accept her as she is, rollercoaster and all, or you move on...you can try to get her to get better help but until she decides to do it for herself (or gets baker acted because she's a danger) and sticks with it, she's not going to be a fun person to be around.
2006-12-02 01:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you loved her you wouldn't be calling her a psycho *****.
it's not her fault. if you loved her you would be there to support her.
at least she is going to a shrink to try to get better.
obviously you never dealt with anyone that ever had a problem like this. let me tell you what it's like. you go from insanely happy to extremely depressed in a matter of seconds. it's like mood swings, amplified. you go between periods of mania where you don't sleep, don't rest, and be wild to staying in a dark room all the time wishing you were dead. it's horrible, it sucks more than you can imagine, and you have no control over it.
so why would you act like it's her fault and she's doing this on purpose?
if you love her, support her. don't try to change her, be there for her when she changes herself.
2006-12-02 01:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with many (not all, and I used to know), if their condition warrants it, they need to stay on their medication. They are very moody and change on an instant, and at times can cause quite a bit of a problem if you are in the public. Like I said many, don't seem to go too crazy, but the one I knew, was too much to handle and I could not subject my daughters to her. Good Luck.
2006-12-02 01:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 01:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by huehn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hyper guy, a lady with bi-polar, doesn't need to be around someone who is hyper. You'll end up making each other crazy!!
You should pursue therapy on your own then, if she doesn't allow you in her sessions.
It's not her fault she had this disorder. All you can do if you want to be there is pick up the pieces she doesn't.
2006-12-02 01:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can go to a shrink but if she is not taking her meds consistently and regularly you are in for a long rocky road ahead.
There is nothing tha tyou can do.
Best wishes!
2006-12-02 01:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by rmdybles30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it sounds like she's lazy and/or cheap. If she's bipolar that's unrealated. It sounds more like she just doesn't want to have to do anything people don't enjoy and gave you an excuse for it. I hate to guess, but I'm willing to bet she's more than willing to do anything else that may be fun and exciting without her "bipolar disorder" affecting her decision.
2006-12-02 01:46:48 · answer #10 · answered by fnord_2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋