I am white and i have blonde hair and green eyes. I used to date a black man who was really nice, one day he invited me to his sis's house cuz she was having a new year's party and she said i can come along. When i did come everyone in the room was black (only about 6 ppl) and they all started whispering and looking at me shaking their heads. The next day my ex dumped me, do you think his sis was a racist and told him to?
2006-12-02 01:19:50 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Killing Loneliness♥ 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
No, it was probably your hideous face.
2006-12-02 03:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't actually mean that she was racist. She just probably wanted to embarrass you and him in front of others. One person said that some black women think that the white women are taking all the good black guys, but it's just that all the good women are doing the right thing to get the right guy. We can be racist in many ways that we really don't understand. It's not just about color, but about gender, ethnic background, religion, culture. All of these are part of racism. Don't really worry about what a person thinks of you as long as you do what you feel is right and everything else will fall into place.
2006-12-02 09:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lonnie Smith Jr. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in grade school a couple of kids were playing on the bus one was white and the other was black, suddenly the bus driver screeched to a halt, and screamed out to the black kid, "get your hands off her you darkie!", we were all around 8, 9, and 10 years old kids on that bus.
i was walking to a high school game with some friends and a car full of white drove by and spat on us.
my mom and dad moved us to a predominately white neighborhood and there i used to get harrassed by the neighborhood white kids regularly.
walking through kmart as a kid some giant white woman said to her kid,"look at that n*gger".
being a somewhat THIN kid, when the neighborhood kids would have confrontations with abit tougher black kids, on the walks home i became the target of their michael richands ranting.
several time i'd have a beer at a bar i typically frequented after work, on 2 occasions i was DIRECTLY insulted with n*gger rants, once from a white guy, another from some white chick.
i was playing chess with a bouncer in the lobby of a nightclub, being a scrub at chess of course i lost, but for some odd reason it drove a white supremecy attitude out of several white spectators, well it ended up with me and my friend having to make a hasty retreat off that entire block.
there have been quite a few more events of racism that have effected me directly and indirectly, but what will it solve by telling them to you.
but not to be unfair i have seen white being treated in the same manor but only a couple of times, once these 2 little black guys from petersburg beat the living **** outta these 2 bigger white guys, i was trapped in the bathroom during the half-time snack crowd so i had know way to escape the melee, and after the brutal *** kicking the 2 white guys went and got one of the biggest black dudes in school to help return the favor. also once i saw a couple of white guys get beat down in a train station by a group of blacks (which was a shame because if the friend would have had his friends back instead of cowering i know for a fact that they could've kicked the **** out of all those guys).
2006-12-02 10:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is either a pure asshole or a still suckles his sis's u know wot...
even if his sis didnt ask him....i think breaking off with u right after that day is like soooooooooooooooooooooo....not sensitive.....
racism...something that nv ends.....
i always tell myself colour doesnt matter.....racism is a thing from the past....but i cant deny the fact that im wrong.....
what matters is the people u know.....u know a fren, a family or someone's a part of ur life from diff racial background, u all are happy n that's all that matter........racial issue as a whole doesnt concern u....
that ex of urs is nt someone's part of ur life and u r lucky for that.....
btw..u sure he broke off just for racial reason?
2006-12-02 09:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by kempret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be thousands of other reasons why he dumped you, but seriously it's not worth pondering over it, coz he ain't worth your tears. People who dump without explanation are nothing by cowards who are scared to defend what they stand for. So flip your hair and hold your chin up high coz someone better will come along.
2006-12-02 09:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but when you're white you're not allowed to talk about it, or complain. Apparently, it's OK to be racist and say racist things against white people. I hear people of other races say things every single day that a white person would NEVER be allowed to say. I hear people of other races say things to me and other white people at WORK, that WE would be fired for saying.
2006-12-02 09:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel sorry for you. but your better off. im english but i live in ireland, not good combo. people over here believe that we (english) sent over the blight that killed all their crops years ago and caused a famine which killed many. ive been called very hurtful names and the worst yet is one day when i was in school few years ago, it was history and they were doing the famine, next thing the teacher said " so who do we all hate" and everyone called "the english".was very hurtful and i ended up leaving the school.al i can say is keep your head up and dont worry about it, your too good for them.
2006-12-04 08:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by ohh baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be...why don't you ask him why...not all black people have a problem with inter-racial relationships....to the person above who said that black women don't like it because white girls are taking all the good ones....not true because I have a good black man and I could care less how many black men date white women
2006-12-02 10:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by karamel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear a lot of black girls get pissed about black men dating white women b/c they fear the white women are taking away all the good black men. (I heard a black girl say that once). But if he dumped you b/c of peer pressure he was a jerk off anyway and wasn't worth your time.
2006-12-02 09:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by Reject187 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like the kind of man that you dont' want anyway he is obviously weak minded what they thought mattered more to him than you did, just be thankful it ended before you were deep into it
2006-12-02 15:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by micheleh29 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that's very possible but that just means he didn't really love you. I am white and my boyfriend is black and people talk sh-it all the time but we both don't care we love each other and look good together
2006-12-02 09:24:15 · answer #11 · answered by xoxo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋