please help me and my friend?

Question

please help me and my friend cause she is preganent by her dad because her dad makes her have sex with her but the promblem is her mom does not no she she till her now or later please help her cause only 5 people no and its spernding all around the school

Answer 1

Wow.. first of all make sure your there for her friend.. its gonna be hard enough and now she has rumors. Stand up for her. You need to tell someone as hard as it might be.. whether it be her mom or a school guidence counsler. Its going to be hard but your friend is very strong and it seems like your a great friends too. They will eventually find out when your friend has the baby.. be there for her and throw her a baby shower.. maybe when her mom comes that will be the best time to tell her and the rest of her family. Both of you can plan it and make sure the baby has the best life whether she keeps it or puts it up for adoption but whatever you do dont have an abortion

Answer 2

I am going to have to differ with a few people...I would say to find a caring adult, (how about your mom?) and tell her, and then go with your friend and your mom to her mom. I say this in case her mom DOES flip out and wont have anything to do with her or will refuse to deal with her or will try to sweep things under the rug by just getting her an abortion and never telling the athorities what happened.
The danger with telling only her mom is that you are telling this woman that her husband cheated on her. With her daughter. This sick, twisted story is going to be so incrediably painful and humiliating she may act irrationally.
So, go find a very good, caring, mature woman (not man), and tell her, then go with her mom. That way there is someone to help in case her mom flips.
Also, I understand that this is just my own personal beliefs speaking and they are especially unpopular in cases of incest, but please beg you friend to not get an abortion, instead adoption would be a wonderful option!

Answer 3

that guy is a real SICKO!! comin on the Internet and telling everyone is the best idea and its not the worst. Best thing tell the cops and then tell her mom even though at first she wouldn't believe u but make it clear that she is telling the truth . U have to tell her eventually sooner or later but i think sooner is best so that something could be done about her dad.

Answer 4

Like the others, let her mom know first. See how she reacts. She'll be very hurt and may or may not blame the child....let it sink in for a day or two. If mom isn't supportative, go to your school counselor or police. They'll help. Wish you both the best.

Answer 5

Please take your friend to the school counsellor or nurse or doctor so she can talk to somebody about the pregnancy and what has happened to her. She needs professional help URGENTLY. She is lucky to have a friend like u through so make sure you get her the professional help she needs. I'm so sorry to hear about what her dad has done to her.

Answer 6

Dad is a criminal.
Mom needs to know that she is married to a criminal.
Friend needs to get away from Dad.

Unfortuately, this will destroy the family.
But Dad made THAT choice - not your friend.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Your friend needs to report her father to the proper authorities for sexual abuse, incest & rape. Her mother should be supportive of her during this time. However, if she is not, ask your parents if they can help shelter her until the authorities take the necessary action to arrest the father. Your friend will also need plenty of professional counseling during this painful time.

Answer 9

ok she has to tll her mom , the counsler and maybe even the police they are all there to help he she has to tell tem NOW but f it is ot the truth aout her dad there re serios consiquines to pay but it needs to betold now and te more yall raw the attention the more it will spread

Answer 10

Call the police yourself if you are her friend this is the best thing you can do. she may hate you but it is the right thing and if you were my friend I would expect yuo to tell. I also think she is saying it in the hope sthat someone will tell.