If your man is doing something to you that you do not like, then tell him to "please quit."
NOT EVERY MAN LOVES TO DO THIS..sounds like you just have a pervert that has watched too many porn movies and he thinks that's the way he is supposed to do it.
I remember my first boyfriend..he learned how to have sex by watching porn movies, and he thought that was what he was supposed to be doing(being very gross), and I told him that I didn't like it and I was gonna break up with him if he kept doing gross shite!
You can make love and have lots of fun without being gross and offending your lover!
Tell your bf to go to he|| !!
Good Luck, hun!
2006-12-02 00:16:10
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answered by Anonymous
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its NOT about power thats a typical female attitude to men and thier sexuality if you had it ur way we would be expected to perform turn over and yes i think you would prob be happy with that. I think, and i dont think i am wrong some women may enjoy that, not all of course butsome. so its a little unfair to demonise this act. It can be part of a great heathy relationship and not just 'Dirt'
You might as well say oral sex is dirty, where will it end just kissing?
The bottom line is, like everything with sex and sexuality if you dont feel comfortable doing it, dont do it
And no sorry the 'its porn'arguement just dont wash
Why blame film? its whats in the mind that drives us. I cant remenber the last time i smeaed camo cream on my face put a bandelero on donned an M16 and shot up the viet cong!! take my point
Cheers
2006-12-02 17:25:25
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answered by wildwood081 2
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This is about one thing and one thing only, power.
Simply put, if you let a guy do this then it's almost like an animal marking his territory and your in a submissive position by letting him do it.
This why guys like girls to swallow too, it's about power.
However, i wouldn't get too hung up on it because think of the advantages, less chance of getting pregnant (and STD's if there was no penetration) and it's a lot easier to clean up!
In all relationships particulally sex, who is the most dominant person changes constantly and that's a good thing. Being dominant or submissive is a turn on, for some it is the ultimate and that's why they pay a fortune to get chained up and whipped.
Why not try and dominate him for a change? Guys like that too.
2006-12-02 08:23:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Pleasure
2006-12-05 11:23:10
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answered by Ollie 7
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I thought that process was done in the adult movies for visual effects. I did not realize we men did that in real life. I mean my purpose for copulating is to make children so why would I "waste" it on the incorrect part of the body.
2006-12-05 13:37:43
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answered by Nemesis: Your worst nightmare 5
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Strokes on boobs gentle crushing them,sucking etc are liked by most of the women.Some women like sucking the dick ,keeping it inbetween boobs etc.Personal preferences differ.You can tell him if you donot like him or choose a different action partner.
2006-12-04 03:44:10
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answered by leowin1948 7
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Only perverts like that. I don't see what the big deal about doing that to girl is. It's got to be the dumbest idea ever.
2006-12-03 07:50:46
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answered by txbillyboy 3
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i suppose some men do it becouse there gf likes it cos if not then why let him in the firs place also i suppose its about control he feels he is in charge of the situation and all that c*** if its your bf who wants to do this tell him to f******* and get a life and leave the porn alone good luck sweetheart
2006-12-02 08:28:18
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answered by Ricky S 2
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They don't want to get it on the sheets. You know how much men hate laundry?
NO, really, I could not do it to a woman unless she was into it and even then I would not get a thrill out of it.
2006-12-05 09:28:31
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answered by BravoWon 3
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I think it's a visual thing , and if the guy is a heavy c*mmer then it's also an ego thing .
2006-12-04 06:28:01
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answered by naturist 2
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