me and my friend have been best buddies for years,but yesterday we were at the park with some of my other friends and when they all went away,he told me he wanted to tell me something! it started raining,so we ran under a shelter-thingy and after a while, he turned to me and told me he loved me,that i was his number one! i froze in shock, and then i started to walk away (it was my instinct,it was all a bit overwhelming!) but,he held on to my hand gently and wouldnt leave me go! he asked if i felt the same,and i started backing away but i hit the side of the wall and i couldnt go any further.i stood there in shock!then he leaned into me and asked `can i kiss you?` i couldnt speak,and my heart was practically doing back-flips!the next thing i knew he was leaning in further and then he kissed me!it was really nice,but i was still so confused!when he stopped,i just looked at him in shock,then i ran away (i didnt know what to do)he called after me,and i was going to go back,but i couldnt.
2006-12-02 00:06:20 · 8 answers · asked by cutie_pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
now im confused.he wants to know if i love him back! he told me he would still be friends with me,but he would always love me.that means we could never be PROPER friends again!if i say i do love him,it might all go wrong.hes my best friend and we are really really close.i would do anything to prevent losing him,but i dont know what do do now!
2006-12-02 00:08:41 · update #1
wow,thats a really sweet story.ya,its kinda hard from being best friends to in a relationship.my advise is follow ur instict.if u love him,call him.if u dont tell him the truth that u dont love him and just wanna be best friends forever.if i were you,i would probaly give it a shot,u never know he could be the perfect boyfriend!.its a lot of risk so take ur time to think about it.okay? ;) let me know how it goes.
2006-12-02 00:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Wheee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite all the swept-away romance notions we all have, it's never a good idea to go into a relationship without giving it a lot of thought first. If it's a good idea today it will still be a good idea tomorrow. But this guy wants you to act before you think, which is never a good idea in love or any other place in life. Don't do anything until you've thought it out for yourself and discussed it non-passionately with him. Then, if it seems good, go for it.
2006-12-02 08:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by David W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, honesty truely is the best policy. If you care for him that much then you are cheating yourself and him of what could potentially be a great thing. Your friendship is never going to be the same way again now that he told you that anyway so I say go for it. You never know it could be the best thing you have done. And if it doesnt work out, its still possible to be friends with your exs.
2006-12-02 08:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by MandaW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to follow your heart. Your mind will lead you in many directions, but your heart never will. You have to ask yourself do I love him? Can you see yourself being with just him? Could you keep the same friendship you have in a relationship with him. My bestfriend told me he loved me when we were in 5th grade and I well loved him but in a friendship way. I was open and honest with him. He was hurt very hurt but he was still olways there for me no matter what. It was hard at first to be honest and open with him again, but over time we feel right back to where we were and that was just as friends
2006-12-02 08:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds nice. You should go for it. If your best freind likes you, then give it a shot. But, if there's something not right about him or don't have that much in common then stay being friends. I think he really does like you. Go out with him. If he seems really nice to you then there is nothing wrong with that. I wish you the best.
2006-12-02 08:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by Aqua chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do love him then you should follow your heart, yes if it all goes wrong you and he will have to try and stay friends.
he has crossed that line and it wont be the way it was before, but hopefully you and him can make it more special.
being friends from the start is good, you have had this time to build on what you have.
just be honest to yourself if you love him. but be honest to him and tell him if you dont love him.
your relationship has changed...may it all work out for you
2006-12-02 08:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u r in luv with dat prsn. really u r lucky and he will neva leev u
2006-12-02 08:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by hum apke hai kaun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him all of this. tell him of your fears and decide for yourself.
2006-12-02 08:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Akela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋