MY BEST 360 FRIEND DIED THE OTHER DAY ,, THE POLICE JUST FOUND HIM IN HIS HOME DEAD, HE WAS A 62 YEAR OLD MAN,, BUT MY BEST FRIEND,, AND NOW HE IS GONE, HOW DOES ONE COPE WITH THE LOSS OF A FRIEND,,
2006-11-30 21:03:23 · 7 answers · asked by *♥*babs*♥* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Remember the good times together.
Honor his legacy.
Live life as he would like you to live if he were around.
2006-11-30 21:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by ideaquest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you can never fully cope with it. My best friend died over the summer from a drug overdose (he got that bad tainted heroin that was going around in chicago). He was just starting to get his life back in order, was clean and sober for 2 years, just got a job, he went out one night with some of his old buddies and look what happens. Kid was 26 years old, he stood up in my wedding, I knew him since I was 10 (Im 31 now.) We went down different paths, but he was still and always my best friend. You just never fully cope with it. Wait till you start having dreams, you will freak out even more. The only advice I can give might not be that great, but just live by all the memories you have that make you smile, and try to honor and never forget your friend.
2006-12-01 05:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by richieu11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found a book that helped me through my grandmother's death. The name of it is "Seven Choices: Finding Daylight After Loss Shatters Your World" By Elizabeth Harper Neeld. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope this book can help you.
2006-12-01 05:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by ashleighshea1982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its difficult to cope with, for u getting out of it fully will tk a lot of time but remember the show must go on, remember the gud time spend together at the same time never let it be on ur nerve the legacy is to enjoy and not to slow u down.
god bless u .............
2006-12-01 05:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by abhishek.ajmera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember that your friend would not want you to stop living your life because he died. They - well, all of us really - just wants to be remembered. Just smile when you think of him. never forget the good times. You'll be fine. Chin up!
2006-12-01 05:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by Eury Peima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just have to get over it somehow..time will heal the pain. cry if u need coz bottling up will make it worse..do things to keep ur mind busy..go for a vacation with a grp of friends to relax..
2006-12-01 05:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different, it takes time, talk to someone you love and trust. I'm sorry for your loss.
2006-12-01 05:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋