How do you deal with someone who's always trying to bring you down? Is it better to distance yourself from these people?What is the reason for them always giving you a bad name?Could they be jealous of some sort of attention you're getting,or are they just insecure themselves?
2006-11-30 20:36:58 · 15 answers · asked by Trent T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Jealous people are just that, envious of you and everyone around them that has something or appears to be better than they are. It is simply insecurities built up from childhood. There is always someone who knows more than we do, or has more than we do. We go through life experiencing this and either accept it or become jealous, which is extremely destructive both mentally and physically. I would either avoid them, not socialize with them, distance yourself because they are on the road to making you miserable as well as themselves.
2006-11-30 20:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether they are jealous or not depends on the individual.
And whether you should distants yourself depends on you.
How good are you at manipulation. I'm very good at it and people like that are perfect to use to make yourself look even better.
They can help you get girls and even actually make your name better. Example: you know that they are trying to bring you down. so now you have control over them. you can expect certain behavior, certain thoughts from them. Let them think that they are in control. Like you have no idea what they are doing. If you are good, these people can turn out to be better then friends.
If your not good then i would suggest getting a book on power and manipulation. You can find one at your local bookstore. People like that deserve to get exploited. And if people like me dont exploit them, then they turn out to be the winners. causeing damage to peoples live. going on completly unchecked,out of control. i am the equalizer, and the more people that will manipulate the better this world will be.
2006-12-01 04:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by zerohour 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've always seemed to have this sort of problem with people, I know exactly were your comin from. In the past I have alway's let it get to me, and let it get my "better" half. Don't worry, your not the one with the problem they are, take it from me I know!
2006-12-01 04:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are exactly what you mentioned...so just ignore this ppl.. Its not worth the trouble. Whatever thing they did to bring you down will dies down sooner or later.
2006-12-01 04:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. no need for competition for this matter. Just inform me that you do not like the way he's behaving. If he can't take it, just move on. Meaning ignore him completely.
2006-12-01 04:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by I think this is useful you see 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ellie chebk out the question to you,
oh and thanx for the points buddy , lol
2006-12-01 04:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by SUFI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're good at ignoring the, then do it. I tend to just stay away from it all. All it does is ruin my mood.
2006-12-01 04:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it. Insecure.
2006-12-01 04:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid those kinds of people.
2006-12-01 04:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by Max 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find it hard to be humble, but i am perfect, and people are jealous of me but it is a cross i have to bear.
2006-12-01 04:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋