I am currently in an amazing relationship with someone who is set up in the town the I am currently living in. I will soon be faced with the decision of staying here with him or persuing my career goals. I have to go away for 6+ years in order to achieve my career goal. I am very much in love with him and have always wished for someone like him. Should I stay with him or leave...if I stay what will come of us? Thank you!
2006-11-30 18:56:59 · 5 answers · asked by mjqueen2585 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Just stay!!!
2006-11-30 20:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'm not going to pretend that I do this all the time, but I can do it if someone is right in front of me. You asked in detail so I'll tell you first impressions, but you should ultimately go with your own gut feeling, deep down, which will always pull you towards your correct life path. If you go, you will achieve your career goal and marry someone else in a couple of years whom you will be happy with and peaceful. If you stay, I feel you will stay with him for quite a number of years but may eventually come to resent not achieving your goal, which will cause conflict. I don't see him moving with you. As I said, go with the deep down feeling, which you already feel, not your heart or head. People that can feel or see things can see the choice paths alot of times, but only you can feel the pull of your destiny. It's never wrong.
2006-12-01 03:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay, you will begin to resent that your relationship held you back from being someone better. Your best bet is to go finish your education, then come back and see if he still loves you. True love will wait 6 years.
2006-12-01 03:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself, follow your dreams. If it is true love, he will wait, follow you, or continue the relationship through the distance. Unfaithfulness will become an issue at some point. Ignore it, or move on. There will be others in your future.
2006-12-01 03:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by i8thr2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My psychic powers tell me if something is true it will be there when you get back. Pursue your career goals..if you don't..you might not feel so motivated later on in life.
2006-12-01 02:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋