suggestion for increase interest
2006-11-30 18:38:48 · 11 answers · asked by great mus 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
get your husband a nice sheep since you can't help him
2006-11-30 19:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your husband's drive isn't going to go away so you need to get interested.
Go for a walk every day. Feeling good about exercising helps you feel good about your body.
Set a date night. Have romantic candles lit, hang out on the bed with the candles lit, give massages, don't force it, just see where it leads.
Reading erotic stories help some people.
Finally, your husband's health benefits greatly from having sex often. It is good for you as well. It brings you closer together in your hearts. Don't tell him you don't like it, it will be very devastating to him thinking he can't please you. Explain that you don't have a revved up sex drive, it's more like a slow turtle. But sex isn't just physical, it's emotional and it builds a bond between you two. So, make an effort in your mind. How often is it happening now, once a month? Make it twice a month. That sort of thing.
I think we get so caught up in motherhood, our lives at work, homemakers, the responsibilities go on and on. We forget our sexual selves, but it is buried deep in there somewhere, you just need to start working to find it.
Good luck!
2006-12-01 04:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by dog's best friend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you ever interested in copulation? If so, what was good about it? If you changed, why did you lose interest?
You say your husband is crazy. In what way is he crazy? Angry? Too interested in sex?
Are you open to the possibility that your husband could learn some ways to help you feel good? Would your husband come to this forum to read ideas how he could be a better lover?
2006-12-01 02:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Decrease the frequency of the act, but increase the quality... also enjoy the act because of the intamacy and closeness with your partner rather than the orgasm and you'll find the physical pleasure will follow.
2006-12-01 02:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by Zloar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definitely DO NOT need to seek help from a doctor of any sorts.......some women do not enjoy the act you are referring to, its normal. And its also completely normal for your husband to really enjoy it. I think you should have a talk with him about how you just do not enjoy performing this act and that it is not a pleasurable experience for you. If on the other hand you want advice on how to enjoy it then just think of it as a way to please the man you love, and maybe throwing in a little food to spice it up and take your concentration away from the act itself.....and when i say food i mean chocolate syrup and whipped cream..things like that.
2006-12-01 02:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Assuming you are talking about sex:
Go to a doctor and get checked for hormone levels, physical, etc. If it checks OK, then go to a mental health practitioner (i.e. psychologist) and maybe they can help with your problem as it may in your head and not in your body.
2006-12-01 02:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by jasonheavilin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a lot of physical and/or psychological factors that are causing this. See a doctor and/or a mental health professional.
2006-12-01 02:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
eat avocado or chocolate.. aphrodisiacs to help you get in the mood. tell hubby to do nice things for you. like flowers/lingerie. ect.
2006-12-01 04:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by JNC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to stimulate your feel good parts and then have fun.
2006-12-01 03:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by linda g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a horny young girl for him
2006-12-01 06:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋