Have sex three times a week.
Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help to a woman cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.
2. Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.
Using an ovulation kit to predict when you are ovulating will improve your chances of getting pregnant. For many women charting or other methods of ovulation prediction are too confusing. Ovulation prediction kits work by reading LH surges prior to ovulation. They are relatively easy to use and are generally accurate for predicting ovulation. Fertility monitors, such as the Clear Blue Easy monitor, are also a worthwhile investment if you would like to get pregnant faster. Fertility monitors are similar to ovulation prediction kits in that they read changes in LH but they also read changes in other hormones and don’t require any guesswork for couples. They are easy to use and will tell you when the best time to get pregnant is.
3. Have sex before ovulation (not after).
Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Don’t wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partner’s sperm will last longer than your egg and you don’t want to miss an opportunity by waiting.
4. Don’t rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.
A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for body cues will help you to determine when you ovulate.
5. Charting may not be the best way to predict ovulation.
Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.
6. See a doctor before you start trying to get pregnant.
Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.
7. Don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs when trying to get pregnant.
This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.
8. Have enjoyable sex.
Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the man’s sperm count.
9. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.
The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Don’t get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.
10. There is no such thing as trying too hard to get pregnant.
Most couples get pregnant within a year of trying. If you have not gotten pregnant within a year consult your doctor for advice.
2006-11-30 19:03:22
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answered by chapped lips 5
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It can take over a year for a woman to get pregnant the first time. If it has been a year and still no results then you should request a referral to see a RE (reproductive endocrinologist) these are basically fertility doctors that specialize in conception and pregnancy. The doctor will check the woman's hormone levels, run general tests to investigate a most effective way of becoming pregnant. Sometimes these doctors also wish to run tests on sperm count as well. I would recommend seeing a specialist about this because it really is most effective.
I had infertility for one and a half years. Finally I found a good doctor who ran tests and concluded that I had ovulation failure due to low LH hormones. She gave me some hormonal meds (Parlodel and Bromocryptine) and after the third month of taking it, I became pregnant with my first (daughter). And then it must have corrected the problem because after she was born and three months old, I got pregnant a second time(this time unexpectedly). Don't frustrate yourself and waste time. Look around for a doctor that you like and go for it.
2006-11-30 18:49:36
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answered by Mom_of_two 5
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If they have been trying for a year, I am willing to bet they have probably tried everything short of medical intervention.
They should probably start temping for a few months to see the cycle more clearly. Your friend can go to FertilityFriend.com to temp. When they do go to see the fertility specialist, they will have the charts to take a look at and do a diagnostic. I am betting it is an ovulation problem. The chart will show patterns and can also show if no ovulation is taking place. No egg= no baby. If it is an ovulation problem, clomid can help. If it is not her ovulation, it would show on the chart, and they can look at her spouse to rule out any problems he may have.
Tell her to check out the book: "Taking Charge of Your Fertility". It explains temping and the next medical steps to get pregnant if that doesn't work.
2006-11-30 18:46:16
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answered by TrixyLoo 5
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They are no quick pregnancy solution. I'm 25 and it took us 3 years. If they are under 35 after a years its time to see a fertility doc. If over 35 they should seek treatment after 6 months.
Sex days on 10, 12, 14, 16 increases your chances. Not 10 through 16. It gives him time to ensure a high amount of sperm. Besides that staying in bed afterwards and placing a pillow under her hips for 30 minutes will help, but no guarantee.
2006-11-30 18:46:51
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answered by Anonymous
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After a year they might want to go to a fertility doctor and make sure that they can have children. The easiest way to get pregnant is to have sex every other or every third day. Everyday will make the sperm count low.
2006-11-30 18:43:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Most OBs will tell you that the adveradge couple in the US, takes a year to concieve! My husband & I concieved 4 (1 misscarriage) on the first try, yeah! But some coupls take alot longer! You can go in for a pre pregancy check up (your ob) they can make sure you are a-ok to concieve. Also it can take time...no stress it will take longer, Good Luck
2006-11-30 18:44:14
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answered by notAminiVANmama 6
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Invest in some ovulation tests. You should get pregnant quite quickly. Good luck!
2006-11-30 21:58:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Have you already tried out Pregnancy Miracle process? Look at this site : http://www.pregnancyinfertilecure.com . This is able to probably support anybody!
2014-07-14 19:53:53
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answered by Anonymous
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