I am currently in an amazing relationship with someone who is set up in the town the I am currently living in. I will soon be faced with the decision of staying here with him or persuing my career goals. I have to go away for 6+ years in order to achieve my career goal. I am very much in love with him and have always wished for someone like him. Should I stay with him or leave...if I stay what will come of us? Thank you!
2006-11-30 18:05:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
It seems that you value both your career and love A LOT. Of course, it would be best that he can go with you as you pursue your career goals. But then, if he really CANNOT go, then, to tell the truth, I advise you to stay where you are, with him, since you said this'' am very much in love with him and have always wished for someone like him. ''
My friend, LOVE is the BIGGEST THING. It is a plant which needs to be watered from time to time. The ''happiness'' of a successful career is short-lived, unlike that of love, which is EVERLASTING.
You still have many years ahead of you. If you give up pursuing your career goals now you can still pursue them later on. However, if you do not stay with him, you lose him FOREVER. I know that some people say that the world is big and one can always find someone who loves you and whom you love back. But they are sadly mistaken. They are right to say the world is big, but it is because the world is so big we can't not meet everyone!
It is FATE, DESTINY, which brought you together. How can you give up?
BEST WISHES AND GOOD LUCK for your relationship :-)
2006-12-03 19:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Echo Forest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One road you get to do what you love, the other road you get to be with who you love. Either way, in time there will be another fork in the road. You are going to face these decisions for the rest of your life. He is also at a crossroads. You need to find out what he wants. Does he want you to stay? Does he have a goal to reach also? You need to communicate with him, and find out what the two of you want and from that point you will know what to do. If it is meant to be, fate will make sure your paths always meet. Good luck!
2006-12-01 04:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by who_is_cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the Love you have wanted then it will not get in the way of your goals. You should still proceed with them as you have planned to. Your life is important and you are the most important. Love, relationships will support this or you need to find those that do support it. Keep focused on your goal. It is part of who you are and want to be in your life. You want to attract a person that will support you to be who you are and will encourage you to be all you can be in your life. Happiness shared is better if you are happy with yourself. Regardless of who you remain with in your life, you will always want to give the most to the relationship you are in.
2006-12-01 08:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by moire1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL i think the thing depends on who u want to be.i think u should ask ur partner that whether u should pursue ur carrer goals or stay with him,if he says he wants u to go and he will wait for u or follow u or have contact withu then he really loves and wants u to acheive ur goal but if he says no then their r 2 probabilities,either he dosent love u from the core or he dosent want to get seperate frm u.in that case u should mark him and how he says u the words mrk his feelings,if he really loves u and dosent want to get seperate frm u then his face will be sad,or his eyes will be watery and things like that.
so good luck.
2006-12-01 04:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him stay with him because you might not meet someone like him. Your career will always be there but good man don't come everyday.
2006-12-01 02:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not psychic...But Ive faced a similar situation...A career goal can be revisited...a relationship cant....and what will become of you...It doesnt matter...love while you can...remember you cant buy it with money....It is the most valuable thing.
2006-12-01 02:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by chris f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop turning to psychics for answers. Don't cheapen your free will.
Picture as best you can your life in both scenarios. What does your heart tell you to do? Where will you be more fulfilled? Where will you be more disappointed? Where will you have the least regret?
Trust your heart. It's there for a reason.
2006-12-01 02:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay IF you feel deeply he is YOUR MAN OF YOUR DREAMS Sleep on and the first thing in your head when awake will be your answer
2006-12-01 02:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pursue your career goal--he may follow you!--
2006-12-01 02:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by JustLynn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋