would you consider a guy who hangs out mainly with women and has alot of gay and lesbian girls gay? its because its me, I'm sometimes mistaken by gay, not that its offensive or anything, I just dont like it when a hot girl makes that mistake, haha
2006-11-30 17:46:00 · 14 answers · asked by juan pablo 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes I would and its plain to see that your in the closet. Stop kidding yourself.
2006-11-30 17:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Obsidian © 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're considered gay if you are attracted to people of the same sex. Hanging out with gays doesn't say anything about your sexual identity. Having a hot girl mistake you for a gay guy can be... well, not that great I agree ;-)
2006-11-30 22:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay guys are Gay, they like having emotional sex with guys.
I am a Metro Sexual - mistaken for Gay sometimes. I come in the club with 8-10 hot chicks from a limo. Yes we are all dressed to kill. Even me., that gets them all the time.
And yes, after hours clubs, there's are allot of gay boys running around, and its a compliment when they hit on me or make a comment. because they are the most critical "girls" out there.
So if they are giving you any attention, you have nothing to worry about.
If they other guys and girls are giving you ****, over look it. Just enjoy the attention. And be yourself.
I moved from Miami to San Diego, everyone here is running around in shorts and jeans, here comes Bruce in the Miami Vice outfits. LOL
2006-11-30 17:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most would consider a guy wo hangs with girls most of the time lucky ;) If you find men attractive than you are gay.. just hangin with girls ir even wearing a pink shirt will not make you gay :)
2006-11-30 17:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thomas: No.
People will judge you by who you're with, it's how people work. Shameful, but reality. However, you need to be mature enough to realize those less mature will draw conclusions.
And dont worry about girls, they seem to like gay guys or those in touch with a little feminine side. Just make it clear you play for their team, and you'll be fine.
2006-11-30 19:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mac181 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider a person a gay for hanging around with another. However It would not be easy to distinguish from the crowd as to who's who.
2006-11-30 17:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by swifthorse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they say birds of a feather flock together, but you shouldnt let it bother you, if you know youre not then why should you make anyone else believe it, if a girl is really interested she will first get to know you and from there see what type of person you are.
2006-11-30 17:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesn't matter who you hang out with, what matters is who you're attracted too. Who cares what people think, that is to say, people other than the girls that your interested in. Express your concerns to your regular friends, have them spread the word that you're straight to would be suitors, and see what happens. Good luck bro!
2006-11-30 17:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Jerrysberries 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens because people still stereotype others big time, they categorize you right away by the way you look and now also by who you hang out with, in your case, awesome thing you are open-minded enough to hang out with whoever you want and well when that mistake happens just correct them, but if your secure with your sexuality, who cares what others think..
2006-11-30 18:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by antoni_m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, some of the best places to pick up chicks are (male) gay bars.
2006-11-30 17:50:00 · answer #10 · answered by screaminhangover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it just means yor in touch with your friends my best friend in the whole wide world is like that to people think hes gay but trust me hes not
2006-11-30 18:37:48 · answer #11 · answered by Kellie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋