My husband knows that I have a few bisexual experiences in my past, but I am wanting to do it again. Should I tell him or just do it?
2006-11-30 17:40:29 · 15 answers · asked by w j 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
tell him about your urges and see if he wants to have a threesome.
hope this helps
2006-11-30 17:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to be judgemental but you're married, you took vows, you're committed to your husband and aren't supposed to sleep with someone else. That's my opinion.
But if you're in an open marriage and you have an understanding and both accept sleeping with others, it's your business and your decision, even if I don't personaly agree with it.
The question here is : what does your husband think of your past bisexual experiences ? Did he take it well when you told him ? Is he ok with the fact that you had them ? If the answer is yes then I think you should tell him - because otherwise it's cheating. But if he doesn't like the fact that you had these experiences then I don't think you should tell him (or even try it) because I think he won't feel comfortable with it and probably get away from you - something I don't think you want.
2006-12-01 06:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say talk to him about it and kinda feel where he is at. How did he react when you told him about your past experiences? I wouldn't care if my wife had or wanted to, that's totally up to her. I'm not the jealous type anyway and I don't classify that as cheating but that's me. If he doesn't react well find someone that you like/trust and just do it. Maybe it's something that you have to re-visit and get out of your system. Good luck!
2006-12-01 01:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by Eric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So - you want to cheat on your husband? Irrespective of your (bi-)sexuality, that's not right.
Unless, of course you discuss changing the rules of your marriage and you both agree into having an open one.
Therefore you should tell him your desires and hope he's amenable.
But when he brings another woman back to your bed for his own fun and frolics - don't be jealous.
2006-12-01 03:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about a 3 some
2006-12-01 15:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy in a relationship. Tell him. See if he understands. If he's reluctant, you can perhaps offer a threesome. If he's still unwilling, then you've got to face a choice: Respect his desire for a monogomous relationship or cheat on him. Your choice. But talk to him first.
2006-12-01 03:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Mac181 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows you've had experiences in the past...why not just sit him down and talk it through...if he's understanding he'll probably give yo the nod...if he's not..he'll soon tell you...but if you do it behind his back and he finds out ...then there will be serious trouble...hope this helps....good luck {:o)
2006-12-01 01:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by PCee 49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let you're husband know. It wouldn't be right if you just did it without telling him..pretty much cheating actually. So i think you should talk to him about it and see how he feels.
2006-12-01 01:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by krystal_lynn_87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Waaay too many relationships are ruined by a lack of communication and undefined boundaries about the relationship.
2006-12-01 14:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bring her home...or better yet her and another guy so your husband can experiment too!!!
2006-12-01 01:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋