is something wrong with me? I think it would be gross to kiss or do anything with a guy. i've had boyfriends in the past, flirted with guys, been asked out, ect. but i don't want to kiss a guy, i feel like im weird because im 16, im sapposed to love guys. is something wrong with me?
2006-11-30 16:47:39 · 24 answers · asked by roaringteens 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no im not a lesbian.
2006-11-30 16:50:16 · update #1
Wow. I said I'm NOT attracted to GIRLS!
I have flirted with boys, which means I'm attracted to GUYS! But I don't want to mess around with them.
2006-11-30 16:53:49 · update #2
you are disgusting
2006-11-30 16:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by KO 3 · 1⤊ 7⤋
No, nothing is wrong with you. The right one hasn't come along yet. You may be hanging out with a class way below your standards. The guys you are meeting are just about the same as a gag in your throat. At your age, you are beginning to find yourself and are realizing just how imature boys are at that age. It gets worst before it gets better too you should know. You are probably the type of girl who will find that older guys are a turn on. Say, 4 or 5 years older. Yea, that's about right.
Well, unless you are turned on by girls, that's another story in it's self. Dig deeper inside yourself and ask yourself some of these very same questions. Think about your own desires and what you think would really turn you on.
2006-12-01 00:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Shawnie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it's not weird. When I was your age I felt the same way. I didn't get intimate with a guy until I was alot older. I waited because I didn't feel like be sexual with a guy, I knew I wasn't ready. And that made it so much better when I was ready. If it turns out you find that men aren't your choice, that you like women, thats totally ok. Not everyone advances or feels the same at the same age or point in time. We all grow at different stages. All that's important is that you are having fun, you are a young lady and life should be fun not be about what others are doing. I had a great time when I was your age, and alot of my friends didn't have sex at that age either. Go out and be sixteen.
2006-12-01 00:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No i do not. I am 29 and was exactly the same as you feel. I never cared to date or anything. Everyone does things like this when they are ready doesn't mean a thing so stop worrying about it is is very normal.
2006-12-01 00:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 36 and I KNOW guys are gross! There's NOTHING wrong with you! Please don't think that. Maybe you will be interested in them, and maybe you just won't. Either way, there is nothing wrong with you. Girls do not have to like guys and LOTS of girls NEVER like guys, so don't you worry no matter what anyone says. Guys are not so great anyway and they DON'T know how to kiss or anything else.
2006-12-01 00:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is not one single thing wrong with not being ready to kiss boys. Most girls start kissing boys before they really want to anyways just because their friends are doing it and if your waiting until your ready then your way ahead of the game!
2006-12-01 00:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by freakyallweeky 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you attracted to women? Do you have any sex drive at all? (Some people lack a sex drive.)
If you are attracted to men and you have a good sex drive, then are you disgusted by the possibility of getting germs? Is that why you don't want to kiss a guy?
2006-12-01 00:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that your to genuine to do something that you dont feel. You will find the right guy and you will fall in love. When you know it, it will be like you got hit in the back of the head with a sleghammer.
2006-12-01 00:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be you're not ready for a boyfriend or you can be into the same sex. Some girls date and do things that they're not ready to do because of peer pressure, my advice to u is don't ever give in to peer pressure because you pay for it in the long run. If you're not ready to date, don't date... wait until you're ready. Dont ever do something because you feel you have to do it because you want to
2006-12-01 00:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by angels85 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apparently the tidal wave of hormones just hasn't hit you yet. Don't worry though, there is nothing wrong with you. One or two more years and you probably will have more intense feelings for the opposite sex.
2006-12-01 00:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by fade0246 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahah your lucky.. your age i was fooling around with older guys doing stupid things.. but ya no nothing wrong with it i have a friend shes 18 and not really ll that interestied in guys well shes interested in guys (she not a lesbian) but she thinks kissing and that stuff is digusting it's pretty amusing but really dont worry bout it a long as your happy that all that matters! :)
2006-12-01 00:53:26 · answer #11 · answered by arei 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋