Me and my 2 best friends are super close. The other two are not afraid to share their secrets, but me on the other end, I'm kinda the shy one. I have some secrets about myself that I know they would keep, but they are embarrising. If there my girls, and haven't told any of our secrets yet, should I tell them some of mine? Or is it ok to keep them to myself?
2006-11-30 16:40:25 · 13 answers · asked by f.o.b<3(: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Keep them to yourself. Never share personal info. out of a sense of obligation or turnabout. They like you for who you are and what they already know about you. You won't win them over any more than you already have by divulging info that can compromise you. Sensitive info doesn't put you further in the circle and can sometimes backfire. Trust your girls to watch your back, but you watch your own first.
2006-11-30 16:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is just fine to keep them to yourself. Just because you are close now doesn't mean that one of them or yourself will grow apart from the group, so only tell what you won't mind others finding out. If you don't mind a slip of the tongue on accident or in a heated argument, I would not tell
2006-12-01 00:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A secret supposedly is something that's NOT repeated. So I'd leave it be a secret. That's a part of yourself you'd be giving to Lord only knows who. It WILL be repeated. Thus you'll be unable to take it back.
2006-12-01 00:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel that you can trust them then yes i wuld say tell them. I have alot of trust in my friend that she wont tell another soul in this world the things that i have told her..It all comes down to how much u trust a person in the end. If u have doubt then dont otherwise go for it.
2006-12-01 04:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by CP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know who will really keep a secret. Most people Do tell and you regret telling them.
2006-12-01 00:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by 4263 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep them to yourself. Somehow secrets always end up getting told.
2006-12-01 00:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, everyone tells someone...and knowing this, I still end up telling my secrets!! I think it's because you really want to believe that someone could really keep that secret you tell them to theirself, but how can we expect them to keep our secret if we can't even keep it!?!?!?
2006-12-01 00:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by Corona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey why dont you give it a try.... tell them something not true, just for testing them, and see how they take it. If you think they can accept
your secrets then go ahead n tell them.
2006-12-01 01:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your secrets to yourself. You shouldn't trust people to keep secrets. Loose lips sink ships.
2006-12-01 00:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep them for yourself,some one said friend of you is friend of mine,so your secretes some day will goes from friend to anoter.
2006-12-01 00:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by lostship 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋