As a woman with traditonal values I cannot stand pushy, overconfident women who seem to think they know everything. Any the married ones expect to be equals rather than submit to their husbands like they are supposed to, thus rising divorce rates because the couple "grew apart or she had to find herself".
They have become bossy and loud rather than softspoken and gentle.
And no I am not a guy, I just are disappointed in what women have become.
2006-11-30 15:37:45 · 5 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well, being a young woman waiting on the husband that God has for me, I can see precisely what you are saying. I am a confident young lady and yes I have had the upper hand with most of the men that I have dated. But I do not believe that it is because I am pushy. I believe that men have lost their rightful place in the household, men need to grow some backbone and stop letting women run all over them. I am not saying that a man should be violent to hold his place. He shold be firm yet gentle. Women also need to stop jumping into marriages that God didn't have favor over so then they would not have to show thier witts so much because the man that God has for them will respect them for what God has made them to be (by then, they woman will have already found herself). I am tired of my female friends who always have the same man problem when they need to find God and find who he made them to be. No man wants an annoying woman andthat is stated in the Bible because Solomen said it is is better to live on the corner of a rooftop than in a house with a quarrelsome wife.
2006-11-30 15:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 6⤋
I guess you can't stand me, then. I don't think I know everything, but I am pushy and confident with my fiance the same way he is pushy and confident with me. "Traditional," in the context you use it in, is just another word for "patriarchal." I wouldn't be able to look at myself in the mirror every day if I were "softspoken" and "gentle." I would be ashamed of myself for not exercising my rights to equality and freedom from sexist thinking that so many women have fought for in this country (the U.S.). I would rather see the world with high divorce rates than full of men who expect the kind of behavior you describe from women.
So, I suppose to answer your question, we have become so "annoying" because we have every right to be.
2006-11-30 16:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by Persephone 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i agree with james... just because not all women are like you, what gives you the right to think they aren't right in their ways, or that its the reason they got a divorce? i'm actually offended that you say that, as a very independent female. maybe i dont think its right that your still living in a world where a woman must "submit" to their husbands. last i checked, it was okay for a woman to be her own person. that doesn't mean we're all pushy and overconfident and "annoying" maybe i find you annoying for being traditional.
2006-11-30 15:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ali 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
So any woman who isn't soft-spoken or submissive is pushy and obnoxious? I really have to disagree.
I don't know precisely what you mean by "traditional values," but I could guess... and while there's nothing wrong with that, you have no right to be offended by women who choose not to be timid and submissive creatures.
2006-11-30 15:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by James C 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Seriously, are you really a man? You have to be to be saying things like that! You seem...afraid. What you think women are taking over or something?
2006-11-30 15:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole L 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋