due to my emtional illness i have found it impossible to stay in a realtionship. i cant go back with him as i have got two ill - it is a matter of life and death. i need advice on the best things to do, think and say to myself and the best thing i can do for him
2006-11-30 15:36:47 · 9 answers · asked by poppy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just take it a day at a time, and try to wade through the pain remembering the good memories you both shared and using them to anchor yourself when the under currents are at their worst.
-NmD!
2006-11-30 15:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, try pampering yourself have a haircut which is different and flattering to you, put some make up on if you have enough money go out and spoil yourself with new clothes ect, if you look good you will feel good, ask some friends to go out the night with you and socialise go for a drink or the pictures or even join a club or take up a hobby, the point is if you are out and about meeting new people your mind will be took of it and you wont be feeling as sorry for yourself plus you will feel confident with your new look, and plus the more you socialise the more chance there is of meeting someone nice....good look
2006-12-01 03:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really need 2 break up with up & go through your illness yourself? if he really loves you, i dont thnk he'd like to abandon you at this time.
but if you insisted, well you sure do need to go through the healing stage on your own, of your emotional illness, plus what youve got to deal with this breakup you thought is necessary.
it's hard & dont hink it's gonna be swift. it's not, it's gonna take some time coz it's a full process. No shortcuts-
but some time on that process you'd eventually need a source of strength, i hope you find it with your circle of friends or anyone who loves you & will stick with you.
2006-11-30 23:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by simplyJESSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go into a relationship knowing that you can't deal with it, Don't start a relationship. Date but don't get involved. Get help with your problems and maybe eventually you might be able to handle a relationship. This will eliminate all those other problems.
2006-11-30 23:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by hotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well having just broken up, I have a little advice for you. Sit down with him and tell him the truth, all of it. If you hide anything and he finds out, any future friendship will be over.
2006-11-30 23:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by wise_sage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dialogue is the best way to breakup
2006-12-01 00:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by swinggle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmm comfort food :P jkz-- seriously i think letting out everything helps ALOT-- like i said to someone else-- how dyou expect them to change if you dont tell them how youre feeling?!
have fun trying to fix this -ooxx-
2006-12-01 02:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight up and stick to your feelings. if he cant deal with it tell him to grow up and stay away from you.. sometimes it is hurtful to other people when we just want our way with out worrying about other peoples feelings...
2006-11-30 23:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by alwaysthinking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No communication at all... faster to heal that way
2006-11-30 23:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋