we have been going out for 11 months and every time we fight he gets so made that he gets a eraser and robs it on his arm so hard that it cuts his skin.i feel like it is my falt wat am i going to do?
2006-11-30 15:18:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my first advice to you is "check spelling" option, please!! and then you can re post your question so everyone can help you.
2006-11-30 15:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault, it's some sickness. He needs help. Hook him up with some, but it's an unhealthy relationship, it NOT your fault (he's not the first one) and once he's seeking help, move on if you have to. Sometimes it's a cry for attention, and a way to make you feel guilty so you'll stay. That's not a reason to stay in a relationship, you'll both find that out eventually if you do stay, but your just postponing the inevitable...
2006-11-30 15:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutting is a huge problem. People do that because they think they deserve the pain. There is nothing you can do about it. If you really care about him you should take him to counselling and have this problem solved. This is similar to anorexia and all those kinds of stuff. If not treated it will not get better.
2006-11-30 15:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone that will cause physical harm to themselves due to anger will more than likely eventually turn their anger and harmful ways on you. He is obviously not emotionally stable and needs help, you need to seriously think about who you could talk to to get him help and you need to distance yourself from him as much as possible.
Talk to someone that will appreciate your privacy first, like a counselor or teacher, and they should have more resources to help you through this.
2006-11-30 15:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Holly L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got been interior the comparable place as you! he does not desire to speak approximately it because of the fact then it turns into actual. All you could fairly do is reassure him which you're there for him and if he ever needs somebody to speak to which you would be there to pay attention! x
2016-12-10 19:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a professional. He needs help before he hurts himself or you.
2006-11-30 15:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by purrfectica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs help sweetie. And I mean more help than you can give him. Do one of two things:
Breakup with him or Get some help for him
2006-11-30 16:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by zabeeday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has 'borderline personality disorder' and it's not your fault. Have him look it up on the internet and see if it sounds like what he's experiencing.
2006-11-30 15:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny, it isn't you, it's him. He obviously has some other issues outside of when you guys fight that makes him do that. Try talking to him about it.
2006-11-30 15:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by snowangel451 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him to go to a counselor to talk about his problems!Good luck
2006-11-30 15:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Gumby to cut that junk out, B...
2006-11-30 15:19:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋