I caught her surfing Angelina Jolie sites........and am sure she'd b happier if she came clean and tried to date women instead of men. I actually think she has a thing 4 me, but I'm heterosexual. I love her like a sister and want what is best 4 her and think if she came clean honest with herself she could find the love she is so looking 4.........any hints from peeps that have been in same situation????
2006-11-30 15:04:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yeah, i think you should let her admit it when she is ready...maybe she hasn't admitted it to herself yet. I am a hardcore bisexual with a preference for women, but it took me a very long time to come to terms with this.
Also I am very very proud of you (and you should be of yourself) for being such a good friend...Wish there were more out there like ya.
2006-11-30 15:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by Betty Sue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that asking her might not be a good idea. I am gay and I really dont like when someone comes right out and asks me. She will tell you when she is ready, it's very difficult if you are gay to accept yourself, but that has to come first. Just keep being a close friend with her, and if she does have a thing for you and approaches you with it...just tell her that your heterosexual but you will always love her as a friend and be there for her. The best thing you can do is let her tell you, cause she will tell you when she is ready...things will go much smoother that way.
2006-11-30 23:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you support her and let her come out when she's ready.
2006-12-01 14:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it will be her decision, not yours. She will find love all on her own.
2006-11-30 23:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋