dO yOu ThInKs It'S a LiE?

Question

ok, so there's this girl at my school, Jordan, and she's been all mean 2 me and stuff and then 2day at lunch she gave me a note saying:
Dear Kayla,
I'm soooooo sorry that iv been so mean to you for the last 2 quarters! I guess I was jealous Jacob liked you and not me. So please forgive me cause I wanna be your friend, please!
Sincerely,
Jordan
sO dO yOu ThInK iT's A tRIcK oR dO yOu ThInK sHe'S tElLiNg ThE tRuTh? CaUsE i DoNt WaNna FaLl FoR hEr TrIcKs! CaUsE i cAn ImAgInE hEr RiGhT nOw On HeR pHoNe CaLliNg EvErY1sHe KnOws(which is alot cause she's popular) SaYiNg, "I kNoW sHe AcTuAlLy FeLl FoR It! NoW i CaN fInAlLy My ReVeNge!" sO wHaT dO YoU tHiNk cAuSe I kNoW sHe'S tHe KinDa GrL tHaT wOuLd Do ThAt. -_^
WHAT DO YOU THINK????

Answer 1

I think you should for one, type your question in a fashion that isn't annoying to read
two, thank her for the note but keep your guard up. Her future actions will tell if she were serious or not.

Answer 2

I was teased tons in school so I can understand how you feel. I don't know what to think. I had girls all the time pretend to be nice to me then all over a sudden act like, "You think I would like you?? Yeah right!" then laugh in my face.

What worked for me was just "kill them with niceness". Be very nice to her. I can't tell you how shocked the girls were when I would just turn around like that. If they said something mean to me I would just smile and at times say, "Thank you." If they needed say a piece of paper in class or something I'd share it with them. If like lets say she got a test paper back in school I'd turn to her and ask how she did. If she gave me smart remark like "Why would I tell YOU?" I'd just kindly smile and not let her see how it hurt me. With in a week or so this girl started leaving me alone and so did her "groupies".

This worked with other kids too and now as an adult I use the same method with rude people.

So what I would suggest just tell her something like, "Jordan, I read your note and I thought about what you said. I am really touched that you would take the time to tell me you are sorry. Ofcourse I will be your friend. Let's just put the past behind us and move on." Then quickly change the subject. Talk to her about movies, music what ever. If she is really sorry you'll have a new friend if not then at least you tried and you are not sinking down to her level.

Good luck.

Answer 3

ok I could read the first part but the second you will have to lay off the caps

It sounds like she is trying to be sincere, but that doesn't mean you fall into line with her either. Thank her for the note, say you forgive her and then say "see you around". Don't commit yourself to hang out with her too much and don't hop right into some sort of instant friendship with her. You need to take it slow and she should understand that considering your past experience with her. Continue to be nice to her, and polite, and leave it at that for now. If she proves to be a good friend in alittle while, you will know and you can take it from there.

Answer 4

Use you're judgement. If she's been mean to you for all that time, then maybe she doesn't deserve to be your friend. You said "she's the kind of girl that would do that". That sounds like you already know she's a shady character, maybe you shouldn't waste your time on her. But if you want to be her friend then both of you can't let boys get in the way of your friendship.

Answer 5

Well, you don't have to become best friends or anything, but you can forgive her. Say something along the lines of "Thank you for sending me a note saying that you're sorry. I forgive you, and would love to get along well with you."

Answer 6

you never know, she could be sincere, but then again girls are just plain mean, and im a girl and I've had that happen. I would forgive her but keep an eye out for anything like revenge.

Answer 7

If she was mean enough to jelous of you because a cute boy liked you, then I wouldn't trust her. Also since you said she's is the kinda girl who would trick you and tell all of her friends. Anyways she probably did that becase she was still jelous.

Answer 8

That sounds sincere. She told you what bothered her, so I believe she's over it. If you start befriending her and she begins to act shady and mean again, then tell her it's not worth being friends with her, but at least give her a chance, you'll never know until you ask.

Answer 9

LiKe JuSt DoNt ReSpOnD To ThE NoTe

Answer 10

I find it kind of weird that she's been mean to you for so long and now gives you a note. I would be kind of suspicious of that and keep your distance from her. Don't be mean to her, but don't try and be best friends with her.