I can't stand when men mislead "us" women by making you think they like you like that, but really don't then think it's okay to rub it in your face as if to say "you want me, but you can't have me". please both women and men can give feedback.
2006-11-30 14:42:48 · 14 answers · asked by Ms. Love hurts 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It is true that women do the same thing. When I was in my twenties with little responsibility, I was a PLAYA! I would date 2 and 3 guys at a time and let each one think they were special to me. I am not a gold digger, I was just having fun. Sure I broke one or two hearts, but I've had my heart broken too. Its just human nature. I say just have fun and don't commit and have fun for as long as you can until you have to settle down and be committed. After 30 is the age I recommend. I have been married for just over 1 year. I was 35 when I got married and I don't feel like I have missed out on one thing life has to offer or not sewed one 'wild oat'. This has allowed me to be content in my marriage.
If men are continuously playing you, you are allowing a pattern to occur. No one can use you if you don't let them. Be honest, you KNOW when you are not sure someone is being true with you and you know when you are going farther for someone that your intuition is telling you to. Listen to that intuition and stick to your guns. Respect YOURSELF first and men will respect you. Men LOVE confident women. If they don't they are just insecure little mom-ma's boys.
Take care of yourself girlfriend!
2006-11-30 14:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by onlyupfrmhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess men do it for the same reasons that women do. The want to see what they can get. If you can't or won't give them what they want then they just move on to the next one. They always have a backup or 2
2006-11-30 22:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by mindy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women being more intution-oriented by nature, tend to trust more than men ..... this is the cause of such vulnerability. This very same aspect also is very very conducive to create a very strong 'family' bond ! A person gets tremendous strength due to this intutional orientation, that is why women are generally a good source of inspiration, motivation, and even a good 'catalyst' for successful business (the reason why they are preferred as receptionist, nurses etc..)
Intutional-oriented people(mostly women) 'tend' to trust more easily, and this offers a good chance to 'logical' oriented people who are tempted to 'exploit' this trust (though for a limited time & gain !).
2006-11-30 22:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I can't stand this question because it is so biased, women do the exact same thing to men as well. There's all kinds of people, men and women.
2006-11-30 22:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by Nick T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man always thing that they are the king of the jungle.
They want to get girl soul and body tru the sweet talk.
They can love many woman in the same time.
So as a woman, dun easily fall in their trap.
For me, woman must financially secure and focus on the career and interest.
Dun waste the precious time to the Bad man.
2006-11-30 22:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one thing I have learned is that it can be really GOOD to be alone.I go out when I want and where I want (within reason) I never forget my purse at home like the dutch-treat dates I used to go on. After about ten years it gets easier. If I ever,ever get together with someone it'll be with separate bedrooms at least. As my Dad used to say: " Take care of number one "
2006-12-01 00:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't tell you what goes on in the mind of a man, no one can, but, I can say that you receive what YOU choose to receive. If a guy is playing games, stand up for yourself and let it go. He might see the error in his ways, he might be interested in a strong woman, or he just might be a jerk and you don't need that anyway. It all depends on the type of man you go about attracting.
2006-11-30 23:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Ambere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see some womens/mens are to sensitive and fall for anythings that pop in there face. I see if you really want to get even say to him that I,m going to the police and report rape, or cuts yourself claims aggravated assaults, now who doing all the talking.The bastards probably got so many womens and turning them into puppets.
2006-11-30 22:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but women do the same to men. I know all too well.
2006-11-30 22:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought women did that more then men
2006-12-01 02:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by tyler m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋