2006-11-30 14:41:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you even have to ask this question honey, then you already know the answer to that. A womans intuition is usually right.
2006-11-30 14:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are not normally an over jealous type...TRUST YOUR INSTINCT!!!! I am so sorry. I suspected my husband of 11 years, was cheating...and a whole year later I had it confirmed and I was right about everything. If you ask he will probably deny and if he's not cheating you don't want to push him away. But go with your gut. There are websites with all sorts of signs. I suggest a great book called "Not Just Friends" by Shirley P. Glass. Is he less interested in sex? Does he not look into your eyes as often? Does he say "I love you" less than before? Does he kiss you less when you make love? Does he say he's with friends that he knows you don't talk to on a regular basis? Does he work late? Do you have access to a detailed cell phone bill? Good luck and God Bless YOU!
2006-11-30 23:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by otowndmbfan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can tell that your husband is cheating by his weird behavior. Such as, when receiving a phone call he walks in the other room. He says he is on the phone with his parents, but try to go into another room and put on the speaker phone are pick the phone up very gently to see who is on the other end. If on cell, ask for a recent statement and write down the time of the call and track it to that time and date. That way you can simply call the number back to see who answers. Say you just won a free day at the day spa and what is your name and address for me to send it to you. It works. Another clue is, if he seems to close to your best friend are friend watch out, he already feels comfortable with them so why not cheat. she wouldn't want to tell you and he wouldn't either because then she wouldn't be allowed to come over anymore. When he says he has to work late, go to his place of work the next morning and verify to see if even was there. Ask a women. Not his male co-workers. Check his trunk are his office for change of clothes. That way he wouldn't come home smelling like another womens fragrane. Diffrent fragances, are lipstick, scatches are a very good indication. Last, tell him to go get you something are tell him you have had a hard week. Tell him to go out tonight and say I will stay home. Then, when he leaves follow him. You leave first and go down the street away enough to see his car and where it goes follow him the rest of the way to his destination.
2006-11-30 23:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by lonely 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very tough question to answer. The best thing I can say is watch for a change in attitude. Is he crankier than usual? Getting a lot of phone calls on cell phone that he won't answer if you are around? Is he staying at work more or later than ususal? Does he make excuses not to have sex? Check credit card receipts for flowers, gifts, hotel rooms, etc.. I hope your husband isn't cheating sweetie, good luck.
2006-11-30 23:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Riss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just feel it! If you really no your man you can tell! Plus you look for things like not wanting to have sex as often and makeing Excusses to leave alot with out you or turning his cell phone when hes gone, But what ever you do, Dont jump the gun to quick! GET PROOF!!! I hope Ive helped you!!
2006-11-30 23:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by Marilyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok...this is a bit graphic...but here goes:
On a night when you think he is out cheating, wait up for him, play like you are horny as Hell....soon as he comes in the door go for him, take his shirt off -while doing this smell his chest for perfume you dont wear - if you dont detect anything start to unbutton his pants while you are gettin on your knees, if he stops you...RED FLAG!!! If he doesn't, he could be trying to play your bluff, keep going...smell his crotch area, if it smells like ***sy...he's caught!!! If not, keep going....WHOMP the hell out of him, he'll be sure not to cheat after all that excitement! LOL
2006-11-30 22:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by ~*FreeSoul*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He starts acting funny, talks on the phone alot, won't talk on the phone in front of you. Starts keeping odd hours. Calls come in at odd times of the day or night. He starts acting REALLY nice, or gets REALLY irratible. Stuff like that.
2006-11-30 22:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you catch him, if he admits to it, or there are other signs. If he works later all of a sudden, Dresses better than usual, Starts wearing Cologne, also if his attitude does a 180. These are signs but no grantee.
2006-11-30 22:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any recent changes in him,cuts down on sex with you,being gone a lot,working late,out with the boys and he has not been doing that ,on the phone,or hides the cell phone from you,so you can't check it.
2006-11-30 22:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a man this is an easy one to answer. if u are saying no the another woman is saying yes, like i asked in my question earlier, is a relationship worth a woman not giving her man what he wants/needs sexually and in most cases women not realizing they are doing so are saying yes they are by always saying no to their mans requests
2006-11-30 22:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋