I am a bit shy about telling a guy that I like him... HELP!
2006-11-30 14:32:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Instead of openly telling him (which puts you in a vulnerable position in case he doesnt feel the same way) why not find a reason to talk to him every once in a while and smile at him and send him positive vibes to let him know (non-verbally) that you enjoy talking with him. If he likes you, that should be a bit of encouragement to show you that he does.
If you want to tackle the issue more directly, I would still recommend against approaching him directly (too easy to get hurt or be seen as overbearing) - perhaps get a friend to ask him how he feels about you - not saying that you were the source. If you are both younger teens, you may want to have your friend ask him about how he feels about several girls, and you are in the list. This is a typical thing for younger teens to do. If you are older, just ask a friend to sound him out about how he thinks of you. Best of luck. And don't chase. A guy who needs to be chased is usually not worth getting. If he likes you and you give him some encouragement, he'll respond. If you have to make all of the effort, he isnt worth it.
2006-11-30 14:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by cyclgrrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest, but, if that's not your thing, then take things slower by telling him "hey, I'd really love to catch up with you, did you want to see a movie with me this saturday night?" and I'm sure that he'll understand what you're trying to convey to him. Take things as they come from there. good luck!!! :)
2006-11-30 22:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kk i have been through this before and i know EXACTLY how u feel. i kept it hidden for like almost a year that i really REALLY liked this guy and just about 2 weeks ago he found out !! i was like totally embaressed. than he was like i like u too. and now we are goin out !! so i am like really happy. i think u should go wit wat ur heart says. if u can never stop thinking about him just write him a note or somethin like that to tell him. mine got out through slips in the mouth but it ended up workin.
2006-11-30 22:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by kaity_cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, I just recently told someone I liked them and it deffinately hasnt turned into anything bad. However, I'm not 100% sure if they heard me correctly or not so when you do decide to say it, say it clearly so they can hear it.
Also, before you say "i like you" take a big deep breath and relax. it makes it much easier.
2006-11-30 22:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by justasking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you then i would just tell him. Dont be afraid if he likes you he likes you if he dosent then move on you should always have a backup man. Sides that is what i would want any girl to do to me.
2006-11-30 22:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by Pro challenger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him and then ask him out
2006-11-30 22:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him and then ask him out on a date...................?
2006-11-30 22:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it and hope
for the best....also just
be calm and be yourself
2006-11-30 22:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by smiley9815 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me about it. lol!!
2006-12-01 01:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by th1608 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋