This women age 43 is married with 4 kids and a not so caring and hard to please husband. She met a younger guy whom is also married and very fond of him , always chat thru phone, like his present during friends gathering and strong eyes contacts always.
1. One day .. her dad passed away and she was very upset. This guy visited the wake but this women ignore his present and do not really talk or eye contact with him. She turned to others male friends and chatting with laughters always. She left this guy sitting alone. As when this guy approached her and try to chat with her, she just answer and walk away from him. What actually on her minds ??? She is too upset to think of relationship at this time or what ???
2. This guy called her and console her for her dad departured. But she don't talk much and just treated him like a very ordinary friend. She did not call this guy for 1 week even she was free to do so. Why ? She don't like this guy anymore ???
2006-11-30 14:31:42 · 8 answers · asked by alanlee011 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Geez give her time to grieve...
2006-11-30 14:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets be open here..the guy is probably you. She is married w kids..she has marriage problem already & now her dad passed away. Let her grief for her dad, but regardless she paid ur attention or not, you should WALK AWAY. She is married& affair isnt the way to start a relationship. Trust me, it wont work..& by her doesnt paid attention to you anymore& talk w other males; no-either she isnt into you or she has moved on.
There is a better women out there for you. You most probably grief2, but it shall pass away & ull move on. Ppl go through hard times & the can survive. You will, too.
2006-11-30 23:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) She is embarassed to talk to this guy because she probably had many other friends at the father's funeral.
2) She feels awkward to be seen associated with this guy because he's much younger than her. Besides, she'a a mother of 4.
3) She felt obligated to fulfill the role of a filial daughter especially at her father's funeral and romance was probably not the right thing to be involved in at that moment.
4) 1 week is too short a period for her to get over the loss of her father.
2006-12-01 06:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her father died.... be real. I don't care what her husband is like, thats irrelevent. She had responsibilities, and probably the other men she was talking to were long time family friends that she felt comfortable with, obligated to, and had relationship with her dad as well. The weeks after a loved one dies are very difficult, there is alot of legalities and family issues to sort out, and she may very well have had other things on her mind. Its a bit selfish of you to be concerned with yourself when she's going through something like this. Get a grip....
2006-11-30 22:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. this women is in a total lost, in confusion. She needs to sort her thoughts out promptly. Dont make the another party suffer in silent.
2006-12-01 00:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie it sounds like she has moved on .
2006-11-30 22:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...guess it's the beginning of crazy hour starting ...
2006-11-30 22:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
scared that ppl might find out ...
2006-11-30 23:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋